SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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Swingset Origin Stories, Recorded Live at #Naughty2019!

Swingset Origin Stories, Recorded Live at #Naughty2019!

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1 Sep 20191h 17min

The New Swinger Experience! (Reissue)

The New Swinger Experience! (Reissue)

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26 Aug 20191h 22min

The BBW Experience, w/Carly and Ronda

The BBW Experience, w/Carly and Ronda

Dylan and Ginger enjoy a conversation with Carly and Ronda about the Big, Beautiful Woman (BBW) experience. In a powerful and vulnerable discussion, Carly and Ronda share their journeys and the source...

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LOTS x Sex Out Loud @ Pleasure Chest Chicago! (Part 2)

LOTS x Sex Out Loud @ Pleasure Chest Chicago! (Part 2)

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22 Jul 20191h 1min

LOTS x Sex Out Loud @ Pleasure Chest Chicago! (Part 1)

LOTS x Sex Out Loud @ Pleasure Chest Chicago! (Part 1)

Tristan Taormino brings Sex Out Loud and Dylan, Ginger, and Cooper bring Life on the Swingset to the Pleasure Chest Chicago for a two hour chat and attendee Q&A about: Bisexual Acceptance Kink, inclu...

30 Jun 20191h 9min

Away With Our Partners!

Away With Our Partners!

Dylan Thomas and Ginger Bentham are both without their partners. Dylan and Ginger decide that it's more fun to cope with their traveling partners by dragging them kicking and streaming onto the Swings...

17 Jun 20191h 21min

Parenting is F*cking Hard

Parenting is F*cking Hard

Parenting is fucking hard… so Ginger Bentham, Lunabelle and Dylan Thomas get together to talk about it. They discuss working around child sitting, showing affection to partners, how open to be at vari...

1 Jun 20191h 6min

THE 350TH EPISODE SWINGALONG SPECTACULAR!

THE 350TH EPISODE SWINGALONG SPECTACULAR!

The Life on the Swingset crew, Dylan Thomas, Ginger Bentham, Mister Pent… and maybe even, could it really be, Cooper S. Beckett, get together and enjoy each other's company for the 350th episode of Li...

17 Apr 20191h 58min

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