The Panic Button - When Self-Soothing Fails

Let's face it.  When it comes to open relationships, the girls hold ALL the cards.  (Especially hotwives!)   As if it wasn't bad enough as a single guy looking for love, once you're a MARRIED guy looking for fun you're tossed in with every bad experience a girl has EVER had in her dating life...and the odds are NOT stacked in your favor. We talk about this frustrating experience for many guys from the Mickey's perspective when he was in an open marriage and dating, with some tips about how to help yourself be more successful as you navigate these treacherous and challenging waters. Be prepared, not everyone is going to agree with everything we say here, and we didn't even cover ALL* of it.  Get ready for the challenge of a lifetime...Mission Impossible - The Struggle of the Married Guy in an Open Relationship!   Links Casual Toys Motorbunny Liberator Casual Creators

12 Jan 20221h 15min

It's Christmastime in Casual Swingerland!   Join Mickey & Mallory tonight while we discuss our pasts, how they relate to our relationships today, and how our present behaviors might impact our future.  Do it along side us and the three ghosts of "A Christmas Carol" as we're walked down memory lane (among other things) and figure out some answers to some burning questions we've had for years. This holiday spectacular is our last episode of 2021 and we want to thank all of you, the listeners, our friends, supporters, and anyone who's purchased from Casual Toys this year.  Thanks to all the content creators who've paved the way for us to make our silly show and had fun with us along the way.   Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza

23 Des 20211h 36min

So often when we meet folks we click with the conversation turns to “rules,” which often times become a checklist of things we shouldn’t do if we want the other side to continue engaging with us...that feels...wrong?  Is there a better conversation to have other than the “Pretty Woman,” conversation that goes something like this: “I’m pretty much a sure thing, but I never kiss on the mouth.”  What are some of our own boundaries & rules we’ve had over the years? What's the DIFFERENCE between a "rule," and a boundary? Want some sexy things for your stocking? Want to pick the best bourbon for a stocking STUFFER? We’ll get into all of it on this week’s Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys Kix'ies Womanizer Uberlube Daisy Corsets *

30 Nov 20211h 19min

Podcast-A-Palooza is LEGIT.   We traveled to Dallas, Texas (we LOVE Texas!) with over 160 other lifestyle minded folks to learn, network, and connect in the sexiest environment anywhere, the highly curated lifestyle experience we call "Podcast-A-Palooza!" Content creators from all areas of the lifestyle descended on Dallas to share experiences with fans & friends alike in educational and entertaining sessions designed to expand on each of our journeys personally, sexually, and even professionally.   We laughed, we danced, we broke stuff...find out what's so damned special about this event and why we can't IMAGINE not attending this event every year!  We dig into our favorite aspects of the event and even drew in attendees to tell you guys what's so great about PCAP!   Listen in...and join us next time! *

15 Nov 20211h 27min

Mallory's Hotwife journey has been an interesting road already.  Hear about some of the challenges she's faced as she gets VERY real discussing her inability to find what she wants, and dealing with one of the worst downsides of disingenuous partners...ghosting. We cover some of the factors we take into account when talking to a new friend for her and our process for selecting new friends for her while having a few laughs along the way...won't you join us?   Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys Bert Kreischer Tour Kenny Wayne Shepherd Tour Whiskey of the Month - Blade & Bow *

31 Okt 20211h 12min

Fantasy is a big part of every bedroom in America, regardless if you're a swinger or not.  Couples have been dressing up & pretending they're everything from the preachers daughter to a college professor since the beginning of time...yet lots of us never get into the practice.  Curious?    So are we!  So we invited hotwife/cuckold couple powerhouse Jack & Kissy back on to talk about their INTENSE role play game!  Hear about some of their favorite characters they play and why this aspect of their sexuality actually improves their luck with couples!   Links   Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza

18 Okt 20211h 17min

Making friends is hard enough without worrying about them judging you for the things you do in your bedroom...even if they're not involved.  Tonight Mickey & Mallory sat down to talk about our own personal experience as we made the decision to prioritize lifestyle & sex positive friendships over traditional vanilla friendships as we established roots in a new state.   Also, we went down to Austin to see Jay & Angie from the Average Swingers Podcast for their annual Austin bar crawl and Angie's birthday!  Hear all about it on this week's Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys Average Swingers   Podcast-A-Palooza

8 Sep 20211h 4min