Just Ask Her - Dating Advice for Single Men2 Sep 2025

Breaking the “Just Friends” Cycle: Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards (Ep. 41)

Episode 41 – Flirting, Ghosting, and Setting Standards: Real Dating Advice for Men

In this episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle some of the most vulnerable and confusing moments in modern dating. They answer real listener questions about:

How to show romantic interest without falling back into toxic masculinity or getting stuck in the “friend zone”
What to do when you’re ghosted after a promising connection—and how to separate facts from painful stories your mind creates
Why chemistry isn’t always enough, and how to set and hold your dating standards even when things don’t work out

Gracie and Tracy share research-backed flirting tips, advice for building confidence, and practical strategies for moving on after rejection. They also discuss the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.

Whether you’re struggling to make the leap from friendship to romance, reeling from a sudden ghosting, or just want to date with more clarity and confidence, this episode is packed with honest insights and actionable advice.

Mentioned in this episode:

The Self-Made Man Dating Journal (now available on Amazon)
How to use self-compassion to recover from rejection
The importance of being direct, setting boundaries, and choosing yourself first

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