All In Podcast5 Nov 2025

The Truth About Men and Emotions: Cutting Onions Cry, Screamers & Jimmy V

In this episode of All-In podcast, the hosts explore the topic of emotions, weeping, and what it means to be a man to talk about The hosts are going all in on what it means for men to cry, show emotion, and move beyond generations of bottling things up.

Whether you're a listener who feels they are numbing their emotions, or just curious about how men can be vulnerable and process things healthily, this conversation will explore the extremes of emotional response and offer two steps toward finding a necessary inner life.

What You’ll Hear:

The different types of crying men experience, including the "cutting onions cry" and the dreaded "screamer". The hosts reflect on growing up without seeing men demonstrate emotion beyond anger.
A discussion on how fear is the root cause driving both extremes of emotional response: numbing emotions (like stoicism) and hyper-sensitivity, leading to explosions like frequent anger.
The powerful life lessons from former NC State coach Jim Valvano (Jimmy V), who said that for a day to be full, you need to do three things: laugh, think, and cry.

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