S2 E18 - You are NOT the adverage of the 5 people you hang out with, having the "HAVE'S" not the "HAVE-NOTS", and Tips for actors & creatives who are scared of Social Media (Like I was)

[Audio Diary Recorded: 8.28.25] In this episode of Glitter Mouth Season 2, I'm diving deep into Facebook ads strategy with a generous expert while debating how I can coach and still create art, all while my car stunt video climbs to 850,000 views and I gain my biggest follower day ever with 202 new people - but then spiral into post-dinner doubts.

Perfect for creators exploring monetization strategies, anyone considering coaching as income, and listeners battling the validation vs authenticity struggle.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Parents' house closing excitement: Getting the upstairs room as my "The One That Glitters" office in exchange for being house manager - solving my work-from-home chaos

• Phil Graham's generous consultation: Facebook Ads podcast host spending an hour instead of 15 minutes

• Coaching program fulfillment discovery: Helping Whitney Uland "How to Be Famous" students and feeling more aligned than ever - "someone sends me the link, I show up, it's so great"

• Creator vulnerability coaching moment: Walking someone through worst-case scenarios - "if you get a mean comment on Instagram and it's going to crush your soul, maybe that's not the right space at this time"

• PDF launch at TheOneThatGlitters.com: Social media domination questions and circle chart with trilogy of metrics now available for purchase

• Strategic post-sequencing explanation: Placing Bruce Lee credibility story right after car stunt so new viewers understand my professional stunt background

• Biggest follower day milestone: Gaining 202 new followers in one day after months of losing followers with every post - "pretty wild"

• Collaboration vision of male dancer: Wanting to amplify other artists and find dance partner for Bossi’s love song with specific choreography vision

• Post-dinner doubts (PDDs) spiral: Late-night comparison trap leading to feeling like "tiny little peon" despite 9.2 million monthly page views

• Attention-seeking trigger comment: Bodybuilder with 40,000 followers asking why I do stunts "for attention" - hitting my deepest insecurity about worthiness

• Stunt philosophy as trust fall: Explaining how you can't do stunts with fear - need confidence and surrender, same energy needed for social media success

• Pressure release reframe: Shifting tomorrow's stairfall from viral expectation to "worst case, I have fun doing hair/makeup and dancing"