25 - Still Talking About… Why They Won't Come Over

25 - Still Talking About… Why They Won't Come Over

If your adult kids, their spouses, or even their friends never seem to want to spend any time at your house… there's usually a reason. And no, it's not because they're "too busy."

This week, we're Still Talking About Why They Won't Come Over…. As in, why your adult children simply don't want to come to your house. Janelle draws a parallel between parenting younger kids and navigating relationships with adult children and in-laws. Because just like kids naturally gravitate toward the houses that feel warm, welcoming, and easy to be in… adults do too.

The episode gets into why creating a welcoming environment has very little to do with perfection and everything to do with how people feel around you, why some parents struggle when their child's partner doesn't seamlessly fit into the family dynamic, and how constant criticism or passive-aggressive behavior slowly pushes people away.

Because at the end of the day, ya can't force closeness. People go where they feel comfortable, accepted, and safe. And guess what, that might not be your house.

For more mother-in-law content, make sure you're following Janelle on Instagram and TikTok.

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38 - Still Talking About… Pseudomutuality with Bri Knight

38 - Still Talking About… Pseudomutuality with Bri Knight

This week, Janelle is joined by content creator, birth and postpartum doula Bri Knight, who has built a following online sharing her own experiences with difficult in-law dynamics after becoming a mom...

19 Aug 1h 11min

37 - Still Talking About… Grandparents and Gifts

37 - Still Talking About… Grandparents and Gifts

Gift giving is supposed to be nice, right? So why does it cause SO much drama in families?   This week, we're Still Talking About… Gifts. Janelle gets into the surprisingly complicated role gifts can ...

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36 - Still Talking About… Working it Out

36 - Still Talking About… Working it Out

This week, Janelle hits 'pause' on her vacation to sit down in her cabin and talk about one of the most common pieces of advice people give when family relationships get complicated… "Just work it out...

5 Aug 35min

35 - Still Talking About… YOUR Questions

35 - Still Talking About… YOUR Questions

This week, Janelle is answering your questions in another listener Q&A episode.   She shares her thoughts on everything from going no contact and explaining difficult family relationships to your chil...

29 Jul 38min

34 - Still Talking About… Death By a Thousand Cuts

34 - Still Talking About… Death By a Thousand Cuts

This week, Janelle is joined by Melissa, a follower whose relationship with her own mother-in-law has been marked by years of subtle digs, impossible expectations, and what she describes as "death by ...

22 Jul 36min

33 - Still Talking About… Grief and Boundaries

33 - Still Talking About… Grief and Boundaries

This week, Janelle shares something deeply personal. After years of talking about difficult family dynamics online, inspired largely by her relationship with her own mother-in-law, she received the di...

15 Jul 49min

32 - Still Talking About… Scolding Adults

32 - Still Talking About… Scolding Adults

This week, Janelle is talking about something she sees all the time in difficult family relationships… scolding.   Not giving feedback. Not expressing disappointment. Scolding.   She breaks down why s...

8 Jul 30min

31 - Still Talking About... My Producer's MIL

31 - Still Talking About... My Producer's MIL

This week, Janelle is chatting with someone listeners have heard her mention many times… her podcast producer, Robyn Flynn, owner of Le Studio Quinze in Châteauguay, Quebec.   The conversation starts ...

1 Jul 50min

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