Zoe Blaskey on navigating the huge challenges of motherhood
Therapy Works5 Apr 2023

Zoe Blaskey on navigating the huge challenges of motherhood

For those of you who don’t know Zoe Blaskey, she is the founder of Motherland, the host of the brilliant podcast of the same name and a transformational coach. For those that do know her I think you will be delighted by this open and honest conversation, from which I learned so much.


Zoe is a mother of two and openly speaks about learning to lean into what she was struggling with, which was every aspect of motherhood.


This conversation is full of nuggets of wisdom and simply a joy to listen to – in it we discuss:


  • How to deal with big emotions - we might be brought up to believe we are ‘too much’ and block our emotions through many negative behaviours, but over time we can train ourselves to respond differently, by allowing them and even validating them.
  • How change takes a huge amount of learning – whether it’s books, workshops, therapy and podcasts. Whilst the process can take longer than we want or choose.
  • The emotional load of motherhood and what can protect us from burn out.
  • The division of labour between two parents – how old systems can get played out unconsciously and now there is a NEW way – through the book Fair Play (see below for link).
  • The power and gift of handwritten letters that we send or even write but don’t send.
  • When we look at transgenerational patterns it opens up our understanding and compassion for our parents and grandparents. It has the ability to change our outlook and increases our level of appreciation towards them.


This is an episode that I think you can go back and revisit time and time again, you will see yourself in it, your children, your parents, siblings and partner. It will provide you with a new way of seeing yourself and others which might be empowering or a relief.


Find Zoe:

Website: https://www.motherkind.co/

Motherkind Podcast: https://www.motherkind.co/podcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zoeblaskey/


Link to the book, Fair Play: https://amzn.eu/d/cm9SuES


This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/therapy works and get on your way to being your best self.


Produced by Georgie Rutherford


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