
Episode 187 - Ex Becomes a Metamour
Take the Beducated quiz and sign up with my link here: https://beduc.at/pd2627-lolaNo relationship is inherently safer than any other, and trying to control every possible outcome only breeds the fear...
31 Jul 22min

Episode 186 - Communication Versus Gaslighting
Telling someone they're wrong when they see withdrawal of affection is gaslighting-adjacent, even if unintentional.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of...
17 Jul 28min

Episode 185 - Relationship Anarchy and Autonomy
Autonomy means freedom to make choices, but those choices have consequences for the people affected by themThat's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription of this ep...
3 Jul 17min

Episode 183 - Disclosure and Privacy in Polyamory
Sometimes the best way to address fear of missing out is to invite partners to share new experiences, rather than tell them afterwards.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full au...
5 Jun 23min

Episode 182 - Permission in Polyamory
Consideration means giving the reins over and allowing emotions to decide whether a partner is allowed to go on a date, which isn't fair.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full ...
22 Mai 22min

Episode 181 - One P*nis Policies
Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio transcription...
8 Mai 30min

Episode 180 - From Cheating to Polyamory
Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.That's what's on this week of Non-Monogamy Help. Find the full audio tr...
17 Apr 17min



















