
Friends, But Gay: Competition, Honesty, and Loyalty
Why do gay men sometimes see each other as competition instead of community?In the Season 2 finale of The JK But Gay Show, we talk about friendship, honesty, loyalty, and what makes someone a genuinel...
6 Aug 47min

Trans, But Gay: Trans Identity, Dating, and Visibility
Social media sensations Miss Jamie and Kassandra Alicea, known as The Real Estate Dolls, join us for a conversation about trans identity, dating, visibility, and womanhood.They share what being trans ...
30 Jul 1h 19min

Money, But Gay: Gay Spending, Lavish Lifestyles, and Relationships
Why does it feel like gay men are expected to live expensive lives?In this episode of the JK But Gay Show, we talk about money, gay spending culture, and the pressure to keep up with a lifestyle that ...
23 Jul 1h 15min

Catholic, But Gay: Faith, Identity, and Catholic Guilt
Can you be Catholic and gay?In this episode of the JK But Gay Show, we sit down with Brian Halderman, a former Catholic religious brother, to talk about faith, identity, and what it feels like to grow...
16 Jul 1h 3min

Politics, But Gay: Being Gay, Opposing Views, and Identity
Is being gay inherently political, or does it just feel that way because our lives keep getting debated?In this episode of the JK But Gay Show, we talk about identity, voting, political exhaustion, an...
9 Jul 48min

Pride, But Gay | Why Pride Still Matters, Corporate Pride, LGBTQ Community
What does Pride actually mean today?In this episode of the JK But Gay Show, we reflect on our first Pride experiences, the moments that shaped us, and why Pride continues to matter for the LGBTQ commu...
25 Jun 58min

Dating, But Gay | Black & Latino Gay Dating, Attraction, Race
What does dating actually look like for gay men today?This week we're joined by the hosts of the Messy Thoughts Podcast to talk about attraction, race, dating apps, and the realities of dating as Blac...
11 Jun 1h 10min



















