It's ACTUALLY Dan Savage!!!

Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

29 Aug 202014min

It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, how to just be "better" in bed (and how to deal with someone not being able to cum or get hard) and how to deal with being bisexual... even though she doesnt really know yet either. Here is the link to the Ask Abbie mentioned: https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-do-i-ask-for-what-i-really-want-in-bed-47723030 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Aug 202027min

Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

24 Aug 20209min

Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

23 Aug 202019min

Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Aug 202018min

Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

20 Aug 202012min

Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email itsalotpod@gmail.com for questions or topic suggestions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

19 Aug 202013min

This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status. Simon's Friend - who remains unnamed, has been thrown into a long distance relationship. Since the move, Simons unnamed friend has found out that her loving partner doesn’t think he can commit to a physically monogamous relationship. However his emotion and spiritual commitment is to her. This episode is a very interesting perspective on modern dating and how to navigate your partners needs, but also a reminder not to forget your own wants, needs and desires. For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

17 Aug 20201h 11min