Expedition Marriage with Chris & Jamie Bailey16 Jul

Ep 189: How to Build a Marriage That Keeps Getting Better

Can couples really stay deeply in love after 20 or 30 years of marriage?

According to neuroscience… and more importantly, God, the answer is yes.

In this episode, Chris and Jamie explore fascinating research on couples who have remained happily married for decades.

The not-so surprising part is every one of these habits reflect principles God has already given us in Scripture.

Drawing from their own 32-year marriage, Chris and Jamie honestly discuss where they've succeeded, where they've struggled, and how intentionally living out biblical principles has transformed their relationship over time.

In this episode you'll discover:

• Why novelty strengthens connection

• The importance of daily physical touch

• How shared rituals create emotional safety

• Why gratitude changes your marriage

• The power of staying curious about your spouse

• Why eye contact and presence matter more than ever

• How growing together strengthens lifelong love

If you've ever wondered whether it's possible to stay deeply in love after decades of marriage, this episode offers both hope and practical direction.

God's design for marriage has always worked. Science is simply catching up with these

7 Science-Backed Habits of Couples Who Stay in Love (And the Bible Explained Them First)

00:00 Love That Lasts

00:33 Science Behind Long Love

02:49 Faith And Neuroscience

04:33 Seven Principles Setup

04:53 Seek Novelty Together

09:11 Our Adventure Examples

13:27 Daily Physical Touch

19:40 Touch When Touched Out

21:27 Protect Shared Rituals

22:01 Rhythms And Security

22:24 Biblical Patterns Vs Algorithms

23:26 Shared Bedtime Ritual

24:36 Weekly Check In And Prayer

26:18 Express Gratitude Often

30:12 Curiosity Builds Connection

36:38 Eye Contact Full Presence

40:08 Grow Together In Faith

44:02 Prayer And Practical Handout

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