Episode 111 Doing The Right Thing... for the Wrong Reason

Hey it's Kalhil and RJ! Are your actions really coming from the right place... or are your motives leading you in the wrong direction?

Everything we do is driven by a motive—but not every motive is healthy. Whether it's seeking validation, chasing success, helping others, getting into a relationship, building a business, or even serving in ministry, your motives matter more than you think.

In this episode, we're taking an honest look at the hidden reasons behind our decisions and asking the difficult questions most people avoid. Are you doing it out of love... or ego? Purpose... or pride? Healing... or hurt?

Your motives can determine your relationships, your leadership, your faith, your career, and ultimately the direction of your life.

In this episode, we discuss:

Why your motives matter
How hidden motives shape your decisions
The difference between purpose and validation
Ego vs. humility
Serving others for the right reasons
Red flags that your motives may be unhealthy
How to align your actions with your values

This conversation might make you uncomfortable—but it could also change the way you see yourself forever.

Join the conversation in the comments:
Have you ever realized your motives weren't what you thought they were? What helped you recognize it?

✨Our hope is that our audience will get something from this deep, honest, and real conversation from the viewpoint of both a Licensed Professional Counselors and a Licensed Social Worker. If you want to watch this episode we can be found at Try Not To Overthink it on Youtube. If you happen to stop by the Youtube channel please like, share, turn on your notifications, and subscribe to the channel.

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