Why You Can't Feel Close to Anyone (And How to Change That)

Your emotions are messages from your soul. Learn how to tune in and listen HERE: www.seatofthesoul.com/emotionalawarenesscourse In this Soul Snack, Gary Zukav answers one of the most universal questions people carry: how do I create intimacy? He explains that intimacy can only be created through love, and that in order to create with love, a person must first learn to recognize it - distinguishing it clearly within themselves from fear. Gary explains that love and fear are the only two energies available to us. Fear shows up as distance, power struggles, judgment, and exploitation, and it always hurts. Love shows up as gratitude, appreciation, caring, patience, and contentment, and it always feels good. Creating authentic power means learning to tell these two energies apart within yourself, moment by moment, no matter the circumstance. The solution Gary offers: true intimacy comes not from another person's behavior, but from choosing love over fear consistently, which allows a person to align their personality with their soul and experience intimate connection with everyone, regardless of how others show up. What You’ll Discover in This Episode: (00:02) — The question of how to create intimacy is reframed: the only way to create it is through love. (01:05) — Recognizing love is the first step; without it, creating with love - and intimacy itself - remains out of reach. (02:34) — Fear-based experiences like power struggles, judgment, and exploitation are illusions, while love is the only thing that is real. (04:37) — Victor Frankl's story from a Nazi concentration camp illustrates how love is the one thing that can never be taken away. (06:20) — Choosing love over fear is the creation of authentic power - the ability to align personality with soul. (07:20) — This alignment transforms every relationship into an intimate one, regardless of how the other person shows up. Embrace the Soul Step Challenge Think of a recent moment when you felt disconnected from someone - through judgment, distance, or frustration. Pause and ask yourself: was I choosing fear in that moment, or love? What would it look like to choose love instead, regardless of how the other person is behaving? Let’s Connect: Gary Zukav | Website Gary Zukav | Instagram Gary Zukav | Facebook Gary Zukav | Books Gary Zukav | YouTube Gary Zukav | X (Twitter)