Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal1 Aug

***BONUS: Choosing Different Mini Series: The Conversations I Wish Every Parent and Child Could Have with my 2 Adult Daughters, Mataia and Morgan

This is the first episode of the Choosing Different mini-series of conversations between Hali and her two adult daughters, who were both teenagers when their family was in the thick of betrayal and dysfunction. Instead of letting that experience pull them apart, they've been doing the slow, unglamorous work of healing, learning each other again, and trying to break some of the generational patterns they grew up with. They are upfront that they don't have it all figured out.

This isn't a highlight reel - it's a real, sometimes messy conversation, shared in case it helps open a door in your own family.

In this episode, they talk about what it means to relate to each other as two adults instead of parent and child, how to choose curiosity over criticism, navigating marriage and relationships as an adult child, supporting each other's dreams, showing up emotionally, and, at the heart of it, what healthy repair after a rupture actually looks like.

If this conversation resonated with you, we'd love for you to join us in person. We're hosting a Becoming Together Mother Daughter Retreat in Sedona, AZ, September 8–12.

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Reclaimed Men’s Parts Work Intensive to heal, integrate, and live wholeheartedly after problematic sexual behavior held August 18-21st.

The Revive and Thrive Somatic Healing Intensive⁠⁠⁠ takes place October 6-9th in Spanish Fork, Utah and offers a structured, trauma-informed space to understand betrayal trauma, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-trust.

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***BONUS Choosing Different Mini Series: What I Wish I'd Done Differently with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan

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#173 Betrayed Men: Why Their Trauma Looks Different — and What Actually Helps with Dr. Laney Knowlton

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#172 Why the Right Words Aren't Enough: Embodied Empathy in Betrayal Recovery

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*** BONUS Choosing Different Mini Series: Three Words Every Parent Owes Their Child: "I Believe You"

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8 Aug 20min

#171 Elements of Healthy Relationships in Recovery with Randi Gray

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6 Aug 45min

#170 "Why It Sometimes Gets Worse Before It Gets Better — And What Actually Helps After Disclosure"

You finally know the truth. So why do you feel worse?If you're the betrayed partner and your fear, anger, and grief have grown rather than shrunk since disclosure, the first thing Hali wants you to he...

30 Jul 18min