You're Actually Not Bothering People Enough

You're Actually Not Bothering People Enough

Most of us hate asking for favors. We worry about being a burden, coming across as needy, or facing rejection for asking too much. But what if our fear of bothering people is stopping us, and the people around us, from becoming happier?

Dr. Laurie explores why our instincts about asking for help are usually wrong. She speaks with psychologist Nicholas Epley about why asking others for help can actually make them like us more. And author and entrepreneur Jia Jiang shares how 100 days of asking for outlandish favors totally transformed his life.

Experts Mentioned:

  • Nicholas Epley, Professor of Behavioral Science at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business
  • Jia Jiang, author, entrepreneur, and expert in “rejection therapy”

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