KC Shornima’s Belt Binding Brouhaha | We’re Having Gay Sex Ep. 172

Shan Boodram (Lovers and Friends) is a certified sexologist and intimacy expert who has advised giants like Netflix, Hulu, ABC, and more, but today she is in the apartment to drop some knowledge on us! We discuss why straight men are so boring in bed, the confounding complexities of pregnancy, and how exactly to make YOUR clitoris happy. Ashley gets her nut for the first time. Kate inches closer to the truth. Shan can be found on IG: @shanboody, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/shannontboodram/, And you can listen to her show, “Lovers and Friends,” wherever you get podcasts!    Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.          Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Get 20% off your first order of Foria’s CDB-based intimacy products by using code ASHLEY at check, or visiting our special link: https://www.foriawellness.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6UHz-3sGdCo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

4 Apr 20221h 7min

Andrea Jin (Just for Laughs, Sirius XM) is an amazing shanghai-born comedian and writer whose work has been featured on VICE, CBC Comedy, and more, but today she has dropped into the apartment to wash her private parts. We discuss realizing you’re queer without having sex, feeling stuck in relationships, and fast food-based vaginal hygiene. Ashley blows through some red flags. Kate bangs with a broken butthole. Andrea can be found on IG: @andreajin, Twitter: @andreajin_, or https://www.andreajin.com/, And you can listen to her debut standup comedy album, “Grandma’s Girl,” now! https://fanlink.to/GrandmasGirl Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.          Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/WHIlSHksrC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

28 Mar 20221h 5min

(TW: sexual assault) Fan-favorite Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise, Unhinged) is a multi-talented actor and musician, but today he is pausing his gay sex vacation to swing by the apartment! We discuss sexual assault in the gay male community, overcoming sexual trauma, and the intricacies of RuPaul’s media pantheon. Ashley steps up to her bully. Kate has ADHD.  You can find Austin McKenzie on IG: @austineyes, Twitter: @apm_official, And you can listen to his new single, “Sending My Love Through the Ether,” on all platforms! https://open.spotify.com/track/7GJ512g5DxcxLpIkfpHz6D?si=f03b2221eac146a4        Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.          Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want better sleep? Try Helix, and get up to $200 off any mattress order and two free pillows by visiting our special link: https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Listen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/ Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/6Gio61krVIY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

21 Mar 20221h 18min

Sam Morrison (Tonight Show Showcase, Stand Up NBC, NY Comedy Festival) is a top-tier stand-up comedian, gay diabetic widow, and Ashley’s bestest friend/future sperm donor, but today he’s in the apartment to spread the daddy bear gospel. We discuss dick-based sense memory, dealing with grief, and getting up in your mugger’s FACE. Ashley seeks closure. Kate hits the Big Apple, LESBIAN STYLE!  You can find Sam on IG and Twitter: @samuelhmorrison, Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoqH2PlyB2hIuHOGzBfjVxA, And you can see him live in a city near you! Stay updated by visiting his website: http://www.samuelmorrison.com/   Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.          Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Listen to “Rich and Daily” on the Wondery App or wherever you listen, and hear it AD-FREE by subscribing to Wondery Plus: https://wondery.com/plus/ Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/bRJvjwWFqmU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

14 Mar 20221h 11min

Caitlin Peluffo (Good Time Gal) is a hysterical stand-up comedian who performed across the United States and on your television on Late Night with Stephen Colbert, but today she is stopping by the apartment to dip her toes back into the gay sex game! We discuss exploring your sexuality, uncomfortable group sex, and the beauty of the butch woman. Ashley battles for cat custody. Kate gets emasculated by his sink. You can find Caitlin on IG and Twitter: @caitlinpeluffo, And stay up to date on when she is in your city by visiting her website: https://www.caitlinpeluffo.com/upcoming-shows-ii Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.          Follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates    – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/SVQ4yjCGoTg Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

7 Mar 202257min

Angel Flores is a transgender powerlifter, political activist, and coach at the Liberation Barbell Club, a queer-friendly gym, but today she is putting down her heavy work to get sweaty with us in the apartment! We discuss transition milestones, dating mid-transition, and which tactics to employ in order to stare at titties. Ashley’s sex fest gets interrupted. Kate celebrates his queer identity.        You can find Angel on IG: @arkangeljoy, on Twitter: @ArkangelAthlete, and on her website at: https://arkangel.squarespace.com/ And follow your national and local ACLU to stay updated on the best ways to combat anti-trans legislation yourself: https://www.aclu.org/about/affiliates    Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.    – Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/xrqXKvJWVCc Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

28 Feb 20221h 5min

Mak Ingemi is a lively queer vlogger/influencer with nearly three million followers across YouTube, TikTok, and IG, but today she is focusing her efforts on some pleasure with the gang! We discuss phone sex, maintaining healthy outlooks in relationships, and the lesbian curse of carpal tunnel syndrome. Ashley navigates the “Broad Squad.” Kate plans a name change.   Mak can be found on TikTok and IG: @makingemi, And you can watch her fantastic content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Makingemi   Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.      Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS   Visit Allform to find the perfect sofa for your home, and get 20% OFF any order by visiting our special link: https://allform.com/gaysex   Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting our special link: https://www.truebill.com/ashley   Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/XKapUDuGXM8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

14 Feb 20221h 8min

Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints) is a YouTuber, ex-philosopher, transgender woman, and all-round genius who has decided to put down the books for some sexy times with the gang! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality, managing overwhelming romantic feelings, and our glorious new algorithm overlords. Ashley meets a true “chucklefucker.” Kate celebrates the New Year, COLOMBIAN STYLE! Natalie can be found @contrapoints on IG and Twitter, and you can support her amazing and thoughtful content on YouTube or her Patreon:  https://www.youtube.com/c/ContraPoints https://www.patreon.com/contrapoints Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.   Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Try Green Chef, and get $130 off + FREE shipping on the most sustainable meal kit by visiting our special link and using code “ashley130”: https://www.greenchef.com/ashley130  Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/rtLy4sAJbRo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

7 Feb 20221h 3min