Their First Time, Our Shared High

Think the only way to heat things up is to swap partners? Not even close. In this episode, Vic and I break down all the hot, non-monogamy-adjacent fun—voyeurism, exhibitionism, and same-room play—that...

18 Sep 202521min

We spent our teens in the friend zone—good enough to listen to everyone’s drama, never the ones they wanted. In this episode, Vic and I unpack how that shaped us, how those voices still live in our he...

11 Sep 202526min

In this episode, we discuss the realities of performance enhancers in the lifestyle. We address common misconceptions about erectile dysfunction, the impact of environment on performance, and the impo...

4 Sep 202521min

In today’s episode, we’re giving you a crash course in lifestyle club and event survival. From awkward ‘cash-for-play’ offers to phones popping up in places they shouldn’t—let’s talk security, safety,...

28 Aug 202528min

We love that you’re excited to be at the sex club. We really do. But if you're in the play area talking about your colonoscopy or your kids’ soccer schedule while people are trying to fuck—you’re doin...

21 Aug 202521min

Think you’re not hot enough for the lifestyle? Too average? Too old? Not what you think people are looking for? Think again.In this episode, we unpack how swinging isn't about being the hottest person...

24 Jul 202526min

It’s not always cheating, abuse, or betrayal that ends relationships. Sometimes it’s boredom, avoidance, and pretending everything's fine.This episode is about the normal-looking relationships falling...

17 Jul 202521min

Are humans really meant to be with one person forever?Or is monogamy just a cultural script we’ve all been handed—whether it fits or not?In this episode, we delve into the biology, traditions, and unc...

10 Jul 202530min