Divorce Abroad: Real Talk from an International Divorce Lawyer | Summer Special

Part of the House of Peregrine Summer Series, shorter clips drawn from our favourite episodes, for those in-between moments when you want wisdom without the full sit-down.

In this clip, international divorce lawyer and mediator Magali van Maanen reveals a truth that catches most cross-border couples completely off guard: when you build a life abroad, the rules you assumed would protect you may not apply at all. Mickelle and Magali explore the moment so many expat families never see coming and why understanding it early changes everything.

In this episode:

Why your children may not be able to leave the Netherlands until you and your partner reach an agreement even if neither of you is Dutch
How your home country's laws can quietly override a "50/50" split you assumed was fair
The clean-break versus spousal-support clash that blindsides cross-border couples
Why speaking to a lawyer in both countries before you decide where to file can protect your future

Produced April 2025: laws change, so confirm specifics with a lawyer.

Magali van Maanen practises at DeBoorder Advocaten in Amsterdam, find her full contact details at deboorderadvocaten.com.

Listen to the full conversation: https://www.houseofperegrine.com/podcast/ep-059

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