It's Not Them
Confidence20 Sep

It's Not Them

Stop playing footsies with people who will never give you what you want. This episode is about getting deeper with yourself and your reactions. Many people feel stuck in relationships where they are frustrated, angry, and misunderstood. I'll give a personal example of how I recently got triggered when a friend showed up late, leading to verbal jabs and mental disconnection. I’ll break down how anger is usually a surface mask for underlying fear and why being "present" is the hardest work you'll do. I'll discuss the power of taking action on your truth, and how that action precedes the clarity you want. I also answer why guys go cold after sex and how to stop being indirect with your goals.


Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application


Chapters:

00:00 Action Precedes Clarity

17:13 Being Indirect About What You Want

52:15 Why Guys Go Cold After Sex

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