No Expectations
Confidence27 Sep

No Expectations

You're not missing them, you're missing a feeling. Let me explain. But first, I share a triggering message I received from a friend pointed at my avoidance. I'll give you an alternate perspective on how to handle harsh energy from those closest to you, while weaving in emotional wounds from how I grew up, and the layer of distance every girl I've dated has felt with me. I also cleared the decks again in my dating life, and I'll explain why easy and light still counts as saying no to yourself. Then two situations: a guy strategizing his final text, and a woman waiting on her gym crush to make a move (and my opinionated thoughts on women making the first move in general).


Ready to break the pattern, apply to work with me: https://confidencechris.com/mentorship-application


Chapters:

00:00 You're Missing a Feeling, Not a Person

11:12 Putting All Your Peace in One Person

17:29 Why I Cleared the Decks Again

23:54 How My Avoidance Affects Others

39:25 He Badly Wants Her Back

54:49 Girls Shooting Their Shot First

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