Abby: Grief, Love, & Ilya Rozanov

In this episode, we sit down with grief doula, death tender, and writer Abby Goelzer to explore grief through the lens of Heated Rivalry and Ilya’s journey. Abby introduces us to Francis Weller’s “Five Gates of Grief” and uses the framework to unpack Ilya’s losses. We discuss how grief isn’t limited to losing a person, but can come from losing an identity, a future we imagined, a version of ourselves, or the life we thought we would have. The conversation also touches on the particular grief many Heated Rivalry fans experience when the show awakens questions about youth, missed possibilities and opportunities, and whether it’s too late to create a different life.

Find Abby:

Threads: @aelepants

IG: @garnet_andthe_moon

substack: https://garnetandthemoon.substack.com/

website: garnetandthemoon.com

essay: https://garnetandthemoon.substack.com/p/did-you-hear-about-rozanov

Abby has a specific offering for folks who want to sort through the grief that came up for them because of Heated Rivalry, which you can find on her website listed above.

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Blanca: Joy as Resistance

Blanca: Joy as Resistance

In this episode we chat with Blanca, a wedding venue owner, photographer, and self-described “collector of love stories." Blanca shares how the show arrived during a period of empty-nest sadness, poli...

21 Sep 58min

Stefanie: The World Needs Smut

Stefanie: The World Needs Smut

In our first Humans of Heated Rivalry episode, we meet Stefanie Kalem, a writer whose love for Heated Rivalry unexpectedly brought her back to creativity. We talk about romance and fantasy and about h...

13 Sep 54min

Episode 20: Season One Finale - A Heated Rivalry Reflection

Episode 20: Season One Finale - A Heated Rivalry Reflection

In this episode, we reflect on the unexpected journey of creating a podcast based solely on our love and appreciation for a beautiful tv show.. We share listener feedback, particularly from those who...

1 Jun 49min

Episode 19: Sex and Intimacy in Heated Rivalry

Episode 19: Sex and Intimacy in Heated Rivalry

In this episode we break down how the intimacy and sex scenes in Heated Rivalry function as emotional narrative structure, and how every intimate encounter between Shane and Ilya changes the relations...

26 Mai 54min

Episode 18: Hockey & Heated Rivalry

Episode 18: Hockey & Heated Rivalry

In this episode, we finally dive headfirst into hockey. Joined by Jayanthi Daniels, a lifelong New York Rangers fan and queer media enthusiast, we unpack why hockey culture feels uniquely tied to masc...

17 Mai 48min

Episode 17: The Mothers of Heated Rivalry

Episode 17: The Mothers of Heated Rivalry

In this Mother’s Day episode, we talk about the mothers of Heated Rivalry, and the ways motherhood, emotional labor, and loss shape who we become.We discuss Ilya's mom and how she exists through absen...

11 Mai 39min

Episode: 16: Heated Rivalry the Book vs Heated Rivalry the Show

Episode: 16: Heated Rivalry the Book vs Heated Rivalry the Show

In this episode, we look at the Heated Rivalry book and the show side by side. What becomes clear is that the show captures the emotional intimacy of the book, even while translating so much internal ...

4 Mai 56min

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