The Myth of Balance: Why ‘Having it All’ is Overrated

Most of us are average at most things. That’s what average means. So why does being ordinary feel like failure? In this episode, I get into where the fear of being ordinary actually comes from and wha...

29 Apr 19min

Arguing and disagreeing are not the same thing. Arguing is two people trying to win. Disagreeing is two people trying to figure something out together. In this episode, I trace why disagreeing has bec...

15 Apr 16min

In 2023 the U.S. Surgeon General declared loneliness a public health epidemic. We have more ways to reach each other than any humans in history. So what’s actually going on? In this episode, I trace w...

8 Apr 20min

You are warm and thoughtful. You show up. People enjoy being around you. And somehow, at the end of the day, almost no one truly knows you.This episode is about a specific kind of loneliness that live...

1 Apr 13min

70% of people experience imposter syndrome at some point. So, if almost everyone privately feels unsure, why does everyone publicly perform certainty? In this episode, I trace where the performance of...

25 Mar 17min

You were busy all day. You’re tired. And somehow your to-do list is longer than it was this morning. That’s not a you problem; there’s a structure underneath it. In this episode, I connect that famili...

18 Mar 17min

Modern life feels strange. Most of us sense it. Few of us can name it. Call Her Eche is a modern life observations podcast that connects what we feel to science, history, and culture; and asks why we ...

16 Mar 3min

For the longest time, I thought boundaries were cold. Harsh. Unkind. I thought setting a boundary meant putting up a wall between me and the people I loved.But I was wrong.In this deeply personal epis...

21 Jan 20min