20 Truths From 200 Episodes: The Ultimate Guide to Healing After Heartbreak and Moving On Ep. 200

If you're going through a breakup, trying to heal from heartbreak, struggling to let go of an ex or wondering how to move on and rebuild your life, this episode is for you.

For the 200th episode of Breakup to Blessing, I'm sharing 20 of the biggest truths I've learned about everything I think we all need to know around this topic. From my own experience of divorce, the lessons I have learned, the people I have worked with, and 200 episodes of this podcast.

I talk about why you don't need to understand your breakup before you can start healing, why closure doesn't always come from your ex, and why missing someone isn't evidence that you should be together.

I also unpack what healing actually looks like: why it isn't linear, why a bad day doesn't mean you've gone backwards, and why your ex moving on before you do doesn't mean they are doing better than you.

But healing from heartbreak is more than just getting over someone.

You're also grieveing other things which don't get talked about enough. The future you imagined, the loss of identity, and the version of you who exists today.

Ultimately, that's what Breakup to Blessing has always been for. The person who is asking these questions, not knowing where to start or what to do.

Whether this is your first episode, or the 200th, these 20 truths will be a reminder of what's important and how you can keep going.

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