Why Flirting Is Really About Intent, Not Just Conversation

What counts as flirting—and when does it become a problem? Elliott Davidson draws a line between harmless conversation and intentionally crossing boundaries, unpacking why one person’s “just chatting” can feel like another person’s red flag.Following last week’s conversation with Sarah, Elliott explores how trust, past experiences, and personal boundaries shape the way we interpret a partner’s behavior. From conversations at parties to liking posts on social media, he asks whether the action itself matters—or whether it’s the intention behind it.In this episode, Elliott discusses:

• How to tell harmless flirting from attention meant to lead somewhere
• Why being cheated on can change how you interpret your partner’s behavior
• Whether liking an attractive person’s posts crosses a relationship boundary
• How couples can agree on rules that feel fair to both of them
• Why some people step away from dating—and what they might miss
• How men and women may approach questions about cheating differently
• Whether dreams, old photos with an ex, or AI profiles count as crossing a line

If you’ve ever disagreed about what counts as flirting, wondered whether social media behavior is harmless, or felt burned out by dating, this episode offers an honest perspective on relationships, trust, and compatibility. Elliott’s central question: are you and your partner on the same page about what feels okay?Share your perspective: Is flirting about the behavior—or the intention behind it?Hashtags:
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