Why Do I Feel So Addicted? | S02E01
BDSM Reimagined1 Aug 2021

Why Do I Feel So Addicted? | S02E01

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps.

We apologies for the sound quality of Season 1. As everyday people, we were still trying to find the best equipment to use. This does improve over the episodes.

In this episode we join Michael and Indy as they confess to their biggest crushes from the past. Indy liked a younger man in her office when she was a very busy executive. Michael was blown away by a blonde haired blue-eyed God one night at a pub. What was it about these crushes that felt so addictive? Indy discusses the phenomenon of limerence, which she encounters in her clinical practice as a psychologist. Limerence is typically experienced as a strong desire for another person who you are compelled to think about, and who you hope likes you too. Limerence also holds a mirror up and asks us, what does this attraction tell me about myself? In BDSM, limerence is heightened by mystery and limited contact. When Indy plays the dominant, she is only a particular part of herself in role. There is massive scope for limerence to kick in. We amplify the qualities of dominance or submission through the tone of our voice, language we use, what we wear - touching on archetypal forms. This leads to amplified limerence. At first we are captivated by the mystery but then we uncover more and can experience disappointment. Limerence is an acceptable part of being human, which can be enjoyed and understood. When you are in this obsessive state of yearning for someone, it can be helpful ask: Why am I so attracted to this person, and what does this tell me about my own life? Links: The Beautiful (BBC Radio: In Our Time): https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p003k9hf


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Meet The Listeners - Lad (Dom) | S02

Meet The Listeners - Lad (Dom) | S02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:10) Intro (04:10) Quick Fire Questions (07:26) Main Kink (10:10) Upbringing (45:25) Fantasy and Analysis Join Michael and Indy this week in the second release of "Meet the Listeners." Today we interview Lad, a dominant with some intriguing kinks such as clothes swapping. Lad answers our quick fire questions before launching into his personal history and story surrounding his sexuality, the origin of his kinks and shame. Then join us for a bonus part of the show where we delve into one of Lad's biggest kinky fantasies...  Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

12 Sep 20211h 6min

Why Do We Submit (Extras) | S02E05

Why Do We Submit (Extras) | S02E05

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

8 Sep 202113min

Why Do We Submit? | S02E05

Why Do We Submit? | S02E05

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us this week as we delve into why it is that we submit. Society increasingly lacks explicit rituals that mark transitions from childhood to adulthood. Women have painful initiations into womanhood such as menstruation and childbirth. Men have their voice break and learn to shave. How does this relate back to submission? Michael goes quite bold and suggests that submission is an attempt to reclaiman the move from boyhood to manhood psychology... Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

5 Sep 202140min

Meet The Listeners - Thomas (Footsub) | S02

Meet The Listeners - Thomas (Footsub) | S02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (00:10) Intro (01:12) Quick Fire Questions (05:00) Thomas' Main Kink (10:00) Upbringing (47:45) Fantasy and Analysis In this episode, we interviewed Thomas. Thomas has a keen interest for feet and has also explored macrophilia and findom. Listen to his story as we look back and pieces it all together. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

29 Aug 20211h 3min

Let's Get Ready to Ramble! | S02E04

Let's Get Ready to Ramble! | S02E04

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. (02:48) Michael's Update (38:08) Indy's Update Join Indy and Michael as they talk about recent struggles and achievements they are having in the BDSM world. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

22 Aug 202144min

We Need To Talk About Religion (Extras) | S02E03

We Need To Talk About Religion (Extras) | S02E03

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

18 Aug 202119min

We Need To Talk About Religion | S02E03

We Need To Talk About Religion | S02E03

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. In this episode, Michael argues that a deep player within our BDSM comes from a biological religious instinct. Using studies from Nicholas Wade, Michael and Indy mirror sessions they have had to religious behaviour that we would have normally done in previous generations and in ancient times. Does this lack of religious space in today's society mean we are searching for it in other ways like BDSM?  Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

16 Aug 202140min

Archetypes in BDSM? (Extras) | S02E02

Archetypes in BDSM? (Extras) | S02E02

This podcast is only suitable for adults. Please rate our podcast! It really helps. Join us as we reflect on our previous episode. Contact us via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

11 Aug 202126min

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