Michael's Upbringing | S03E03
BDSM Reimagined14 Mar 2022

Michael's Upbringing | S03E03

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Join Michael and Indy this week as they go deeper into Michael's history with his family. Indy outlines how we develop a blue print in how we connect and love. We discuss Bowen family systems theory, which helps to describe dynamics in families. Seeing the family as a system, an interconnected network. If we have an attentive mother who is attuned, this has a formative impact. The architecture that forms in our neural pathways can feel secure or anxious, avoidant or disorganised. Michael was born into a family with two older siblings, born in South Africa when there was a lot of crime. Michael's Mum struggled when Michael was born, possibly experiencing post natal depression. Michael did recall that his Mum struggled with three children and to be able to get attention. This meant Michael's mother was preoccupied, maybe that she was not able to be there consistently. Michael recalls blaming himself, he wasn't looking for more connection but rather became more avoidant of attachment figures. He resolved things within himself. This was where he saw security and refuge - an avoidant attachment style. Michael has a tendency to want to resolve things within himself in intimate connection. Michael's predominant connection was with his brother, who often physically over powered him. Michael had to internalize a lot and on top of that had to disengage with his needs to connect.


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And so Season 5 begins...! | S0501

And so Season 5 begins...! | S0501

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Season 5 Trailer

Season 5 Trailer

For adult listening only. Season 5: Release on August 21st, 2025.Join Indy and Michael as they explore their BDSM journey in the day-to-day. We hope you enjoy our podcast. Contact us via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.comMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

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Meeting Michael: Goodbye Sex Work and Hello Season 5! | 20

Meeting Michael: Goodbye Sex Work and Hello Season 5! | 20

In this episode, Michael announces Season 5! He also quickly checks in about some recent decisions around his sex working life...Contact via email:bdsmreimagined@gmail.comMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTHLicense code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

9 Jul 9min

Meeting Michael: Things I Have Learned Over The Past Few Years (Pt.2: As a Dom) | 19

Meeting Michael: Things I Have Learned Over The Past Few Years (Pt.2: As a Dom) | 19

Join Michael as he looks back over the past few years and share some of his learning of being a dom. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

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Meeting Michael: Things I Have Learned Over The Past Few Years (Pt.1) | 18

Meeting Michael: Things I Have Learned Over The Past Few Years (Pt.1) | 18

01:20 Kink is Wonderful 03:49 Sexuality Is Very Fluid: It's Ok To Not Know Or Understand Your Sexuality/Kinks Just Yet 06:58 Communication is Key 09:29 When Simple Needs Are Not Met, Things Can Get Very Complicated 13:38 Power Centred Kink is Informed By Trauma (a work in progress) 17:26 Sensory Centred Kink is Neurologically Based 18:49 I Do Believe in the Narrative Idea of Dom/sub 21:32 I Am Pretty Clear Where My Kink Originates From 24:02 My Kinks Aren't As Urgent Anymore Join Michael as he looks back over the past few years and share some of his learning. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

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Meeting Michael: Why We Submit (from Fight Club to Findom) | 17

Meeting Michael: Why We Submit (from Fight Club to Findom) | 17

In one of his favourite and probably most important episodes, Michael uses the video essay "How Fight Club Turns Men into Space Monkeys" by the YouTube channel "Like Stories of Old", to discuss how it parallels the dynamics of dominance and submission, particularly the appeal of the "unconflicted" alpha figure. Michael reflects on human instincts around hierarchy, the yearning for role models, and how individuals surrender their individuality in the pursuit of symbolic immortality. He emphasises the importance of critically examining the motivations behind following dominant figures and how these connections offer a sense of meaning and escape from existential fears. Watch the video NOW: Like Stories Of Old: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymgoem4v4u4&t=66s Please like, comment and subscribe to his channel. Featuring; ‘Where Is My Mind’ cover by Alex Voulgaris (Follow Alex at @alexvgr)  ‘Where Is My Mind’ cover by Gattobus Additional Music: Skyler Lawson – Eclater Luke Atencio – Projections Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

23 Sep 202437min

Meeting Michael: I knew this would happen.. (Episode 15 update) | 16

Meeting Michael: I knew this would happen.. (Episode 15 update) | 16

In this episode, Michael updates listeners on his recent experiences with dating and navigating the complexities of financial domination (fandom). He shares reflections on a fragile connection he formed with someone he met, noting the emotional highs and lows of the dynamic. The episode delves into the struggles of finding authentic connections in the kink and dating scenes, as well as the psychological aspects behind his desires. Michael also touches on the impact of therapy and his inner child work, highlighting the intricate layers of guilt, power, and control that shape his experiences. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

16 Sep 202419min

Meeting Michael: I'm Angry And A Little Scared | 15

Meeting Michael: I'm Angry And A Little Scared | 15

In this episode, Michael talks about his recent break up and where that has led him. Contact me via email: bdsmreimagined@gmail.com Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): License code: GNHL82KTDKW6KBTH License code: UZ3QGMJGYWGTEZYZ

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