Episode 264: Three Years in the Making

After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in the future. Plus, this foursome might have Brenna c...

3 Nov 202554min

Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that programming just go out the window when we get into the...

27 Okt 20251h 5min

Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a lifestyler, and why he is as cautious as he is. Plus...

20 Okt 202559min

Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical attraction the most important thing in the lifesty...

13 Okt 20251h 2min

Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidelity seems more socially acceptable than ethical non-monogamy...

6 Okt 202558min

Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifestylers and the way they are "lifestyling." But when does it be...

29 Sep 202558min

A controversial take on married or otherwise partnered men in the lifestyle.... We discuss some of the ire we have received over the years for our views on how men behave, especially when they are try...

22 Sep 202559min

As we approach the 5th year anniversary of our largest event of the year, we have some important questions for each other: What do we want for the other person, and what do we want for us as a couple?...

15 Sep 20251h 1min