Nina Hartley: Porn Star, Activist, and Hand Job Expert
Sex With Emily19 Sep 2013

Nina Hartley: Porn Star, Activist, and Hand Job Expert

The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, “Butts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can’t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.” In other words, if you want to get down and dirty with anal sex, you must have open communication with your partner and feel genuinely comfortable with your butt (and what’s going on inside of it). While drunken anal sex might seem like the greatest thing in the world, it’s better to be fully aware of what is happening and be cognizant of hygiene rules. Before you even get to anal sex or intercourse for that matter, you need to find out what kind of relationships you’re looking for. Are you monogamous and looking for one mate, or are you non-monogamous and ready to land in more than one place? Nina talks about her sexual identity and how she embraced a non-monogamous lifestyle. When we're younger, we often make the same mistakes over and over again. Sleeping with people who don’t care about us, and getting in relationships with people who don’t want the same things as we do, and feeling guilty for having a love life that falls short of a romantic comedy. You have to figure out what works for you, and not anyone else. Some people enjoy random sex, other people don’t. Nina enjoys doing porn because she likes having sex with people without having to date them. Other people find that having sex with strangers makes them feel empty. Find out what kind of relationships makes you happy, and don’t look back. Finally, Nina Hartley gives descriptive directions on how to pleasure a woman with your hands. You’ll learn how to lightly pinch and pull her clitoris and make it move. Nina gives great foreplay tips, because unless she says, “do me right now you sexy beast,” you’re going to have to get her warmed up for sex. Special Offer for listeners of Sex with Emily: Freak In The Sheets If you want to change your love life check out: Emily and Tony, Promescent,Crazy Girl, Max4Men, Masque, and Good Vibrations. Emily and Tony is a premium, intimate personal-care brand that believes intimacy should be fun, flirty, sensual and natural. Our products: Aromatherapy Massage Candle, Personal Naturally Hydrating Lubricant, and DownUnder Comfort for you sweaty nether regions. Use coupon code Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl and Max4Men. Use coupon code GVEmily20 at checkout for 20% off purchases of $100 or more at Good Vibrations. Or use coupon code Emily for 15% off anything at Good Vibrations. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episoder(1528)

Monday Manscaping

Monday Manscaping

Emily talks with guest Anthony Sosnick, founder of Anthony Logistics for Men, about grooming essentials and practices, the Sex with Emily "Carnal Confessions" booth at Treasure Island Music Festival, extreme sex confessions, How do you tell your partner to groom "down there,"? Menace explains why he strongly dislikes drunk white girls and the best products to manscape your body. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Okt 201150min

Sex Without Penetration

Sex Without Penetration

Emily attends a class on non-monogamy, how to overcome jealousy, Emily plays with her sex school friends, Google calendars to schedule sex with multiple people, is cheating genetic?, having bad gaydar, the morning after pill and the royal wedding, what's the best kind of orgasm, how to get through a break-up, how to start a new relationship, masturbating in front of your partner, the vagus nerve that makes you orgasm, nude beaches, smoking and sexual performance, Menace's date ideas, how to have a successful long distance relationship, phone sex and sex simulation: how to have sex without penetration. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Okt 20111h

Back Door Man

Back Door Man

What's sexy about having sex in nature?, Menace's worst phone sex fear, when men get bored with sex, the hottest and cheapest date idea for the weekend, how can you have sex at 85mph?, did Emily helped SF to become the most promiscuous city?, what happened with Menace's previous engagement?, Emily loves her new pet name, "Princess Emily," ways to work around foot fetishes, being in a relationship without the commitment, how to suggest anal play to your partner, the essential tool to use every time for backdoor sex, the number one rule to make it pleasurable and how to get the most out of it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11 Okt 201159min

The Tao of Dating

The Tao of Dating

Emily talks with guest Dr. Ali Binazir about his book The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, do long-distance relationships actually work?, a little known aphrodisiac, why men love sensual women, how to have enlightened self-interest, the pros and cons of online dating, the three "C's" of dating and tips for getting the guy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Okt 201157min

Episode 309 - Hot Sex

Episode 309 - Hot Sex

Emily's co-author Jamye Waxman talks about their book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, first masturbation experiences, if you really love someone do you swallow?, pubic hair trends and armpit hair, how to get more foreplay, the two most important things for anal sex, how to touch breasts, taking it slow, men who love the vagina vs. men who don't, threesome etiquette, shower sex and can you teach someone to be a better kisser? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Okt 201157min

Ultimate Guide to O

Ultimate Guide to O

Emily talks with Mikaya Heart, author of The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women, all about orgasms including: being in your body during sex, observing your energy flow to reach orgasm, using a vibrator during intercourse, why goal oriented sex doesn't work, the biggest relationship killer, G-spot orgasms, why shallow sex can be better for women, focusing on your body during sex, the "elusive" orgasm, female ejaculation, mixing up your sexual repertoire, multiple orgasms, and hanging out in the "golden light" after orgasm. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Okt 201155min

Sex Myths

Sex Myths

Why San Francisco is the most sexually promiscuous city, women dressing up as sexy Star Wars characters, sexting ex's, who doesn't?, it's sex toy day at the Sex With Emily office, is a wingwoman better than a wingman?, female erogenous zones you didn't know about, G-spot parties, women who orgasm from nipple play alone, sex myths debunked. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Okt 201158min

Your Brain on Sex

Your Brain on Sex

Emily's new crusade to end the rise of excessive female promiscuity, Menace's crazy Nyquil sex dreams, iPhone apps to save you from scandal, Menace uses Emily's moms financial advice, sex clubs in Seattle, Stanley Siegel, author of "Your Brain on Sex: How Smarter Sex Can Change Your Life", talks about using sex to find "The One", bringing fantasies into relationships, sexual chemistry, and Emily talks about her most recent sexual experience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Okt 20111h 1min

Populært innen Helse

hvordan-har-du-det-mann
fastlegen
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
psykodrama
rss-gukild-johaug
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
leger-om-livet
rss-garne-damer
morten-ramm-lar-kakla-ga-til-du-sovner
foreldreradet
fryktlos
bak-fasaden-en-reise-i-livet-med-sykepleier-ine
hormonelle-frida
klimaks
rss-kunsten-a-leve
g-punktet
helsetipspodden
baarli-og-benjamin-gar-i-terapi
sinnsyn
rss-femihelse