Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms

Did you know that there’s an estimated 15 million swingers in the world?  This week, Emily interviews Daniel Stern, author of Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle. Listen in on how a single man learned to navigate “The Lifestyle” and pick up some specific tips on how you can add a little spice to your sex life. Daniel shares his insider experiences and tips that we can use in any relationship - whether swinging, married, dating or single. Emily and Anderson catch up and we hear all about Emily’s sold out “How to Blow (His Mind)” workshop at Hustler. Plus, the pair dare to ask Dan about some of his most crazy stories about swinging. Prepare yourself for dominatrixes, orgies and cuckolding gone wrong! Daniel shares how The Lifestyle took him from being “bad at sex” to a master in the bedroom. He shares his best tips for performing oral sex on a woman, how to date and still be a swinger and the best websites to use when you’re looking for a partner (or partners).  Also, he explains why you might have the wrong impression of what a swinger really is and the pros and cons of being a swinger. What’s the best way to introduce a new partner to your sexual past? Do all swingers have ponytails? Is The Lifestyle right for you? Those questions answered and more in the latest episode of Sex With Emily! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Jul 20141h 6min

This week’s Podcast is chock full of sexual information, all aimed to improve your sex life and make you feel good! Emily’s special guest, Coyote the woman BEHIND the sex toys, and is head of purchasing for GoodVibes.com, which pretty much makes her the expert! In this episode, Coyote and Emily talk sex toys of all shapes and sizes! Want to know what toys are best for singles, couples, anal, g-spot, waterproof, etc? These ladies have the answers. Coyote uses her expert knowledge to guide newcomers through choosing their first sex toy. She and Emily give advice for a married listener who wants to introduce sex toys into the bedroom, and delve into the wonderful world of lube! Emily shares a story of her deep personal connection to Good Vibrations and Coyote tells us about her experiences in the ever-changing sex toy industry, including how she got started, what it’s like to shop sex toys for a living, and how her job has positively affected her own sex life. Emily also has special guests Ken and Helle from Baci on the show to talk about their new line of sexy lingerie and hosiery, and the awesome summer selfie contest coming up! Want to feel sexy AND have the chance to win $500 worth of Baci clothes? Ken and Helle tell you how! The gang talks new things coming out for GoodVibes, including some technologically advanced sex toys that make intimacy possible over long distances (or as Anderson puts it, making it harder and harder to rationalize cheating). This Podcast is all about the positive side of sex, why people should never stop the SEXplorations, and always have fun with it! All this & more in this week’s show!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Jul 201457min

On the latest podcast Emily interviews adult film star Siri, the all-natural beauty who has swiftly skyrocketed to success. Listen in as this self-proclaimed “late bloomer” turned sex-positive bombshell give specific tips for performing oral sex on women (and men), anal sex, the truth about faking orgasms - on and off camera, her favorite position and her fantasy role as Power Girl in the world of cosplay.  Siri shares why her biggest turn on is dirty talk, how to deal with jealousy in a non-monogamous relationship and how she went from being a Texas girl to being named the AVN Performer of the Year. Also, Emily gives us the inside scoop about her night out at a Hollywood premiere party and Anderson gives her his two cents about it! Later, they both weigh in on Siri’s instructions for masturbating. From Siri’s role as an activist for The UnSlut Project to what her husband got her for her birthday (you’ll be as surprised as Emily was!), nothing’s off limits in the latest episode of Sex With Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

11 Jul 20141h 3min

In the latest podcast Emily and Menace are talking all about pushing the boundaries of your relationship. Whether or not you’re wondering if your friends-with-benefits situation will ever become something more, questioning if you should introduce your true love to swinging, or concerned about how to acquaint a new partner with your favorite sex toy- this show is for you. Emily is here to give you her tried and true advice! Looking for a surefire way to escape the friendzone, want to know how to escape a dead end relationship? Curious about what kind of accessories you’ll need to handle a partner that squirts? This podcast has it all. Plus, Menace and Emily talk about their newfound love for the beach and debate a character from their past- “Captain Erotica.” Is anal the new blowjob? Is squirting the new anal? Find out on the latest episode of Sex With Emily! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Jul 201431min

In this week’s podcast, Emily and Menace are back in action, ready to answer listener emails and talk sex, love and relationships. Emily had a rough morning and shares the gory details. Plus, we cover the recent  developments in Emily’s social life.  Menace announces his BIG Taco Bell news and he and Emily embrace their brother-sister relationship with a little sibling squabble, followed by a quick makeup. Next Emily and Menace move on to some freakier subjects, including freaky sex ads on Craigslist and ‘freaky’ first time sex moves. Emily explains why you should avoid getting too kinky the first time you sleep with someone  and shares her experience with some overzealous men. Answering listener emails, Emily gives advice to a girl going off to college, looking to explore her “inner freak-” and shares her ideas for the dream sex toy starter kit.   Then Emily counsels a man who is frustrated with his married sex life and thinking of cheating. This podcast addresses the hard-hitting questions: What’s Menace’s all time favorite taco? What’s the best music to listen to when you masturbate? What if Emily had an orgy and nobody came? Find out the answers and more in this week’s show!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Jul 201451min

On today’s show, Emily demonstrates her top mantra: communication is lubrication. Emily compiled a list of the most popular questions she gets asked from listeners and teaches communication skills those sticky situations. If communication is a tough subject for you, don’t worry, she give you a script for that. Subjects include: How do I talk about anal sex?, How do I talk about erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?”Emily shares the most effective ways to ask for more oral sex and encourages women to be open (and honest) about their orgasms. So, what do you do if your partner doesn’t want to go down on you? How do you ask a new partner about STIs? And, of course, how do you stay out of the dreaded “friend zone?” Emily explains why you need to approach these touchy situations and how to do it right.   Emily’s panel of female truth-tellers today include her assistant Lauren and her intern Carolyn. The women discuss common issues women deal with during sex, but don’t ever talk about. Both women share the truth about their own romantic lives. Emily coaches them with scripts to deal with their current relationship challenges and also helps her listeners with their toughest questions. The Sex With Emily women contribute specific tips on how to ask for what you want in and out of the bedroom. You don’t want to miss this.     Send your questions , comments & fantasies to: feedback@sexwithemily.com Can’t get enough SexWithEmily?Subscribe on iTunes and never miss your bi-weekly Sex With Emily podcast… Special discounts for listeners of Sex With Emily:   Use coupon code GVEMILY20 for 20% off at Good Vibrations and coupon code EMILY for 20% off my Aromatherapy Massage Candle and DownUnder Comfort at Emily& Tony.Go to Promescent to make love longer.Increase your stamina with the #1 selling sex toy for men, Fleshlight.Stop by Hustler Stores in Hollywood for all your kinky needs- Don’t forget to mention “Sex With Emily” at the counter for 20% off your purchase.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Jul 20141h

This show is doubly great because there are not one, but two, very special guests: The first is DeAnna Jordan, relationship & addiction expert. The second is Emily’s big brother, Michael! Today’s show is all about rules for healthy relationships across the board! DeAnna explains the facts behind love addiction. How do you protect yourself from getting in too deep, too fast? Follow DeAnna’s “No Sex for 90 Days” rule, which is so crazy it just might work.. if you can last that long! Next, DeAnna gives advice for listeners on how to break out of bad dating patterns by avoiding that person you’re immediately attracted to and exploring other dating types! Also, the importance of being direct, both in relationships and in the bedroom: Why you should have the sex talk before the sex, have the relationship talk before the relationship, and why ladies need to start speaking up about what they want in bed! Emily and DeAnna answer some listener emails on addiction and relationships, and Emily gets proposed to by a listener ON AIR. Emily might not be ready to tie the knot with a long-time listener, but is she ready to start opening up to the possibility of a relationship? Plus, fans want to know: Is there an Emily Fleshlight in the works? All this and more in this week’s latest Podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Jun 20141h 4min

Today’s show is all about improving your sex life, and discovering the elusive G-Spot orgasm! That’s right, I’m in the studio with my awesome assistant and one of my new interns to give you the low-down on that magical little button that you’ve heard so much about. I give tips for men and women how to find it, how to stroke it, and what toys to use to heighten your G-Spot pleasure. But first, we’re popping my new intern’s Podcast cherry! Carolyn tells us about her night with her first ever G-Spot sex toy, the Silky G Waterproof G-Spot Vibrator, as well as the struggles she had of getting into a sex toy rut (prior to being an intern at Sex With Emily, where sex toys abound!)  Then we discuss our own G-Spot experiences- the good, the bad and the totally bizarre. Plus what do women think about when we masturbate? And where can you find a porno so good that my assistant actually stopped masturbating to watch it? Ever wonder about the difference between a G-Spot and clitoral orgasm? Or what positions are best to hit that sweet spot? We’ve got your answers! We give first-hand tips on the do’s and don’t of pleasing your lady: DO use lubrication, DON’T just dive right in, DO keep your nails clean, DON’T rub her clitoris like you’re trying to start a fire. Remember guys, when it comes to her pearl, less is definitely more. Her body language will tell you all you need to know! We also discuss why more guys should be down with sex toys, pet-peeves and turn-offs, and- say it with me- the importance of foreplay. Hope you have as much fun listening as we did recording! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Jun 201451min