439: Strong, Calm Parenting When it Feels Like the World is on Fire

A listener seeks fulfillment in relationships but often finds themself in the same old patterns dictated by gendered cultural norms. They desperately want to break their patterns and unlearn normative conditioning around love and self-worth, but they just aren't sure where to begin. Jessica offers a starting place and a new perspective. 🎫 Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras — including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

10 Jul 20241h 4min

Venus forms a sextile to Uranus, trine to Neptune, and an opposition to Pluto in this very Venusian week! Plus, Jessica unpacks more of the big-picture astrology of our times. 🎫 Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras — including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

7 Jul 202442min

Stevie has been struggling with active, functional addiction for 15 years. Her drinking has never brought her to rock bottom; in fact, she has a successful career, friends, and family that love her. But the problem is... she just can't love herself.  🎫 Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras — including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

3 Jul 202443min

With a super emotional New Moon in Cancer on the 6th, you can trust that this week is meant to kick up some big feelings and growth! This week we also have a Mercury opposition to Pluto and Venus square to Chiron, both provoking challenges and creating opportunities for major transformation. Plus, Jessica discusses what to expect from Neptune in Aries and how to make the most of the final months of Neptune in Pisces. 🎫 Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras — including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

30 Jun 202451min

Happy Pride! A Trans man joins Jessica to talk about sex. While he's transitioned happily, he hasn't yet been able to fully embody his own sexuality. He and Jessica discuss what it means to be a sexual person in a body: from dysphoria, disconnection, experimentation, porn, prudishness, kink, and more. Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras - including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

26 Jun 20241h 12min

This week is so Mercury! It trines Saturn, squares Chiron, and sextiles Uranus. Expect things to be busy, and get the cheat codes for how to make the most of them on this week's Ghost. Register for Joy in the Time of Apocalypse a live conversation with Jessica Lanyadoo, adrienne maree brown, Sonya Renee Taylor on July 20th here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/joy-in-the-time-of-apocalypse-a-live-conversation-on-being-deeply-known-in-times-of-crisis-tickets-929773446407?aff=oddtdtcreator 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras - including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

23 Jun 202424min

The June 21st Full Moon in Capricorn is the first of two Full Moons in Capricorn this summer - and this one is confusing. We also have three squares to Neptune - from Venus, Mercury, and the Sun - kicking up exhaustion, anxiety and the need to slow down and touch grass. 📍 Support the podcast and get loads of extras - including a bonus episode of the podcast monthly, only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/JessicaLanyadoo. 🔮 Learn with Jessica, get her book and your free weekly horoscope at https://www.lovelanyadoo.com/ 👀 Track transits like a pro! Astrology for Days is available at astrologyfordays.com 🇵🇸 Give what you can to this GoFundMe to provide hot meals to Palestinian children in north Gaza: https://www.gofundme.com/f/Hot-meals-in-gaza-daily  Donate to anera.org + if you are in the United States, visit uscpr.org & JVP.org for education and prompts for taking action to support Palestine. 🇵🇸🇵🇸MECA is on the ground to provide Gaza with medical aid, clean water, food, psychological support, and more. Give what you can at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.mecaforpeace.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SAD and Pol's mutual aid fund for Mx. Yaffa and MASGD https://givebutter.com/iPxsAf 🇸🇩 Visit: https://eyesonsudan.net/donate 🌹 There are so many ways to give with the Black Fairy Godmother! Find them here: https://lnk.bio/theblackfairygodmotherofficial

16 Jun 202441min