015: Choose what you focus on, choose how you feel, choose what you get from life
Kintsugi Life24 Okt 2018

015: Choose what you focus on, choose how you feel, choose what you get from life

"Where your attention goes, energy flows and results show" - T Harv Eker This episode is all about a power that we each have to shape what we focus on in life, and to determine how we apply our energies to those things which ultimately shapes the results we then achieve from them. It all comes down to the Reticular Activating System which is the part of the brain that filters out what we detect via our senses. We filter out based on what we've trained our minds to notice and if we constantly see the negative, then that's what we'll see more of, and this will ensure that ours is a life of struggle. If we instead focus on gratitude, positivity and energy then that will be how we view the life and this will in turn yield results in terms of how we feel about life. In this podcast I explain how the many ways of observing the same scenarios can indicate where our focus is, and can indicate where we'd be better served to train ourselves to respond more appropriately. If you have any comments or feedback on this episode you can reach out by email on toby@kintsugilife.co Our blog can be found at kintsugilife.co and our Facebook page at Facebook.com/kintsugilifestyle

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