Ep 11: Playmates, Playdates, Pressure and Performance

Ep 11: Playmates, Playdates, Pressure and Performance

Our first four-way!!! Podcast, that is!


Meet Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly - our playmates and quarantine couple - in our round table discussion about playdates, pressure and performance. Together, the four of us share stories and laughs as we discuss the different times we've all felt the pressure to perform for our play partners.

The guys talk about the common reasons they experience performance anxiety and what they do when they can't perform for their partners. The ladies talk about how they experience pressure and performance anxiety too and how they've handled these experiences in the past.

We take a deep dive into the head games and the stories we tell ourselves when things seem to not be going as planned. Then the four of us discuss ways that men and women in the lifestyle can let our play partners know that things aren't going well for us or that our time with that person is over - a tough conversation to have!

And be sure to stay tuned to the outtake at the very, very end ... it's a good one!

Read our most recent blog post here: Tristan's Blog on Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle Show Notes and Resources can be found on the Accidental Swingers website Connect with us on Instagram @AccidentalSwingers Find us on Reddit: Myrina's Profile or Accidental Swingers Profile We're also on Twitter

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