010. LS- How to build a crisis-proof couple from the beginning w/ Meg

In this new Live Session`s Episode, Meg is asking for help to understand why her marriage is ending. And to overcome the fact that they are getting a divorce. Through this session, we are going to learn about the pillars that hold creating a family. The importance of the foundation at the beginning of a couple. The formation of a family begins with what a person wants for herself or himself. What unites us? What makes us feel that we belong and makes us call ourselves family? What is a family? What is the invitation we are making when we decide to join with another person? What are we going to create together? You can not help someone go through a healing process if you do not want to force. It does not matter the benefit that we can perceive that this will bring to the life of the other. Good intentions are not enough, it is essential to respect the decision that the other has taken to be where he is and be as he is. To help someone who doesn't ask for help is to intervene in their freedom. And all the energy invested in that help that was not asked drains you, erodes you and creates conflict. An energy imbalance is generated, as well as money. It is as if someone lends you money without you asking for it and then it starts asking you to pay it. Start a relationship wanting to change the other, error, nobody can change anyone. The only thing you can change is yourself, with love, with tenderness and patience. And if you want to suggest something to someone else, you should do it the same way. And if still, giving the best of you, giving your example of life, manifesting the best demonstrations of goodness, you must understand that there are people who do not want to change, and they are in full right. I hope you enjoy it! Thank you for your time. If you want to learn more about my work on the Pacific coast of Ecuador: www.ninawasi.com