174. Retroactive jealousy

174. Retroactive jealousy

Feeling jealous over our partners past can feel highly irrational, but its still a feeling many of us have and contributes to a lot of obsessive and unhealthy behaviours like stalking their exes, asking intrusive questions, starting arguments in hopes of getting the reassurance we need. In today's episode, we talk about the psychology of retroactive jealousy, including its origins and how to move past your jealous feelings. We will talk about:

  • How past relationships and trauma create jealousy
  • Overthinking and anxiety
  • Rejection sensitivity
  • Self sabotage
  • Interrupting mental compulsions

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383. The psychology of intrusive thoughts

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382. How is AI actually impacting our brains?

382. How is AI actually impacting our brains?

AI has transformed the way we work, the way we ask questions, and the way we function as a society. But what impact has it had on our minds? In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the ways that this new-...

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381. Are friendships REALLY meant to be inconvenient?

381. Are friendships REALLY meant to be inconvenient?

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380. A big life update...

380. A big life update...

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379. I got an STD in my 20s, now what?

379. I got an STD in my 20s, now what?

Dating and sex can feel like they come with a hidden rulebook. You’re meant to be adventurous but not too adventurous, confident but not reckless, and always somehow immune to consequences. So the pot...

29 Jan 34min

378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

378. Your guide to surviving the dating apps in your 20s

One minute it’s exciting, the next it’s endless options, half-conversations, and the dismissive feeling of being judged (or ignored) by people who don’t actually know you. In this episode, we’re getti...

26 Jan 47min

377. Why do we resist change?

377. Why do we resist change?

When we move through our 20s, it can feel like everyone else is making big, brave moves - new cities, new jobs, new relationships - while we’re stuck in the same place, overthinking every possible out...

22 Jan 39min

376. 7 tips for moving to a new country in your 20s

376. 7 tips for moving to a new country in your 20s

Moving to a new city is one of the most exciting (and emotionally challenging) things you can do in your twenties. Whether it’s for work, study, love, or a fresh start, leaving behind what’s familiar ...

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