Ep#138 Why Is The Dating Pool So Toxic And Are You Toxic To?

After a divorce, a lot of men find themselves standing in a quiet house on a Tuesday night with nobody to call and no idea how that happened. This episode is about why your social life shrank after th...

13 Aug 18min

You're in good shape. You've got your life together. You're kind, you're steady, you're the man your friends call when something goes wrong, and you still haven't met a woman you were genuinely intere...

6 Aug 18min

You've read her last text nine times and you still can't tell: interested, or just polite? After a divorce or a long-term relationship, most men's signal-reading is off  in both directions. Some men m...

23 Jul 19min

Here's what most men get wrong about a dating rut: they treat it as a motivation problem. Push harder, or quit entirely. But a rut isn't a motivation problem. It's information — and if you learn to re...

16 Jul 15min

Getting a date doesn't have to be complicated — but it does require a few things most men aren't doing. If you've been listening to this channel and quietly thinking "this advice is great, but I don't...

9 Jul 16min

Most men trying to become more attractive are working on the wrong thing. They're perfecting the performance — the posture, the tone, the carefully unbothered expression — without realizing that the w...

25 Jun 15min

Most men think they know the difference between a woman being kind and a woman being interested. They don't — and it's costing them more than they realize. In this episode, I'm breaking down four patt...

18 Jun 13min

In today's episode, I'm sharing what most men never learn to do on dating apps, and it's costing them months, sometimes years, of their time and emotional energy. If you're dating after divorce or a l...

11 Jun 11min