Mixing Kink and Sex
In this episode, I discuss the most controversial topic in kink (I think). The mixing (or not) of kink and sex. What I think both sides get wrong. What I believe the origin of this argument is and ...
21 Jun 202418min
The Attraction of Sadism
Today I talk about what attracted me to sadism. The origins of it for me. As well as how I think sadists try to develop a mystique around them that often fails.
14 Jun 202424min
How to Get Started in Shibari and Rope Bondage
Getting started in Rope bondage and shibari was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. In this episode I talk about how to get started, and the equipment needed. Why suspension should nev...
7 Jun 202434min
Why BDSM and D/S Goes Wrong So Often
No matter what you do, if you play with BDSM and especially D/s, things will go wrong. I equate these extras in relationships to be “relationships on hard mode”. I talk about some of the reasons why...
24 Mai 202428min
Fake Dom/Sub vs. Real Dom/Sub
The concept of fake vs. real is way overused. I have my problems with many ways that people do things and call it something its not. But in this episode I talk about how its more a matter of matchin...
17 Mai 202416min
DD/LG: Beyond The Stigma
DD//g goes through cycles of stigmatized and then popular. I talk about why that is and how DD/LG doesn’t deserve that stigma at all.
10 Mai 202415min
Managing Polyamory and D/S
There is a common pitfall if you are in D/s and polyamorous to try and combine the two. In this episode I talk about why that is a huge problem and how that trap is tempting but never leads to good t...
3 Mai 202422min
