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Shae Harmon is our guest on today's podcast and they are here to talk about trans people's experiences of pleasure and joy and how we can broaden the conversations about sexuality to be more inclusive and expansive. Content warning: there are a few unbleeped words on this episode! Shae (they/them) is a trainee sexologist at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in the UK, soon embarking on their final year. Shae has experience running queer and sex positive events in London, mentoring and supporting queers, running workshops on consent, negotiation, sex menu writing, relationship styles, activism and intimacy. They have been an active participant in restorative justice within various communities. They sometimes blog about trans/non-binary issues for Feeld, COSRT and other sites.  Extra credit links: Shae Harmon Instagram @shaequeertherapy Shae Harmon tiktok @shaequeertherapy  Smut Peddlars Zine (amateur erotica by young, POC, trans and non-binary people) Xan West - cute stories and erotica based on gender and body diverse peeps Fucking Trans Women - Zine by Mira Bellwether  Pinklabel.tv Porn Crashpad Porn Trans Sex, Lucie Fielding - a book for therapists working with Gender Diverse clients Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Okt 202250min

It's still butt month at The Sex Wrap, and today we tackle the other side of the anal question: what about when you don't want to try butt stuff? Today we talk through the discussion and the options. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

19 Okt 202224min

It's October, which means it is "butt month" at The Sex Wrap! And all month we are answering your questions about butts and what happens when you do fun, sexual things with your butt! Today we talk about the anus as a muscle and what happens when you play with your butt--in the short and in the long term! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Okt 202223min

Prostate play is something a lot of people are curious about! Today we have a question from a heterosexual couple where the male was interested in trying some "butt stuff" with his female partner. We talk you down Anal Road, giving you all the info about the sights you need/want to see on the way! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Okt 202230min

Monkeypox--is it a STD/STI? Should I be worried about it? Can I prevent it? HELP! This episode has all your questions answered. And for more info, check out the CDC's info page at: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/index.html. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Sep 202225min

"Hooking up" is maybe the most over-used phrase to describe, well, so many sexual behaviors. Today we talk about the "rules" of hooking-up, and how to do it better. (Hint: it definitely involves communication!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Sep 202236min

So many people ask us this question in moments of turmoil--like after that night where you were on a boat and there just wasn't a condom, or when the condom broke, or when you suspect someone has not be honest about their past... WHEN SHOULD I GET TESTED?? Today we talk about the when, the how, the why, the what, ... a little bit of every aspect of the question. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Sep 202239min

Ever have like the best best best sex with someone, and then break up with them, and then think "OH NO I HAVE TO HAVE BAD SEX AGAIN"?? Well you're not alone, and we're here to help. We talk about how you can prevent the bad-sex-again blues! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Sep 202229min