Ep. 11: First Time Anal Sex, Men Who Don’t Make a Move, and Battling Catholic Guilt

Ep. 11: First Time Anal Sex, Men Who Don’t Make a Move, and Battling Catholic Guilt

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:


  1. My partner and I want to try anal sex for the first time. Can you give us some tips on how to go about it? I don’t want it to hurt. Are there things you can do to make it hurt less?
  2. I’ve been seeing a new man for about a month and he still hasn’t made a move. I’m used to men hitting on me on the first date. What’s going on? Does this mean he doesn’t find me sexually attractive?
  3. I was raised in the Catholic Church and their viewpoint on sex is very negative and close-minded. Now that I am older and not involved in the church anymore, I am trying to relearn basic behaviors and change my mindset surrounding sex. I often am overwhelmed with feelings of "Catholic Guilt" any time I find myself filled with desire and want. I have a hard time relaxing and getting that guilt out of my mind during sex or while using my vibrator that it is really hard for me to enjoy the act of sex. Besides therapy, what are my options to overcome this wall?


And offers her sex tip of the week!


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