S3 Ep. 10: He Can't Find my Clitoris, Sex as a Widow, and Why Has My Affair Made Sex Hotter with My Husband?

S3 Ep. 10: He Can't Find my Clitoris, Sex as a Widow, and Why Has My Affair Made Sex Hotter with My Husband?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I’m having an affair and ironically, sex with my husband has never been better. It’s confusing me. I was all set to leave, but now I’m not sure. We were stuck in a rut for years and nothing seemed to make a difference, but now I can feel new life breathing into the marriage. The question is: Is it going to last?


2) My new boyfriend is enthusiastic about giving me oral sex but he clearly has no clue where my clitoris is. He licks about one inch down from where it is. I’ve tried pulling him up and into the right position, but he just slides himself back down to where he was. In fairness to him, previous partners have told me my clitoris is smaller than usual. But it’s still frustrating!


3) Kelsey, this question is for you because you are also a widow. My much-loved husband died unexpectedly two years ago and I have finally emerged from the hell that is intense grieving. I still miss him terribly but I am only 52 and realise I still have a life ahead of me. I feel ready for some fun and casual relationships but I fear my adult children are not ready for this. How do I make myself happy without upsetting them? I miss sex and all that goes with it! I am also nervous that when I do first have sex, I will end up feeling guilty and like I am betraying my husband. Did you experience this?


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