S7 Ep. 3: Is It Okay to Ask a Woman to Wear High-Heels in Bed, Where Did My Wife Learn Her New Tricks, and Why is My Partner Avoiding Sex After the Birth of Our Child?
SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey25 Okt 2023

S7 Ep. 3: Is It Okay to Ask a Woman to Wear High-Heels in Bed, Where Did My Wife Learn Her New Tricks, and Why is My Partner Avoiding Sex After the Birth of Our Child?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I seem to have the opposite problem to my friends. I’ve just had a baby (she’s six months old) and want to resume having sex with my partner. I’m not exactly dying to have sex, but do think it’s important for us to remain sexual. He knocks me back every time I initiate, coming up with weak excuses why he doesn’t feel like it. I still have some baby weight to lose, so is he just not attracted to me anymore? This is doing nothing for my self-esteem.


2) My wife of 12 years has suddenly changed from not enjoying sex very much to wanting to try new things. I’m obviously pleased, but also a little paranoid because she seems very practiced doing things we’ve never done together. Where has she learned this stuff? Why the change all of a sudden? I’m trying not to jump to conclusions.


3) I find it really arousing when women wear high heels to bed with nothing else on. I don’t think this classifies as a foot fetish because so many men enjoy it, but my questions is this: In this very woke, consent-aware world, is it still okay to ask a woman to do this? How long into our relationship should I wait? I don’t want her to think I need this to get off, but I don’t want to end up with someone who won’t indulge it either.


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