Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 28: Choosing An Adoptive Family

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 28: Choosing An Adoptive Family

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 28: Choosing An Adoptive Family Choosing an adoptive family for a birth mother does a few things in addition to moving her along in the adoption process: It makes her adoption decision real, she is looking at books of pictures of real families who are being presented to parent her unborn baby. This can create a myriad of emotionsSome birth mothers try to postpone or delay looking at profiles because it feels “real” at that point. While others actually find peace after selecting a family because now they can focus on getting to know the adoptive family and know that they are making a wonderful choice for their childIt can make a birth mother re-think her decision on which type of adoption she would prefer; normally this goes from closed to semi-open or open. When she sees the adoptive families she may see them as non-threatening, non-judgmental and accept that she is making an amazing choice and it will be better for her to be able to see her baby grow upBirth Mothers choose an adoptive family for reasons such as Type of Adoption PreferenceLocation of FamilyOther ChildrenPetsStay at Home Parent vs DaycareReligionLifestyle: Educated / Traveled / HobbiesReason for adopting This is what I see birth mothers do when looking at adoption profiles: Look at the covers of all first and usually wind up picking the first book they pick up. Some read every word, while others skim through.Some cry while looking at the books.All love to keep the book after choosing a family so they can create a connection and “study” the book.

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Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep200: November is National Adoption Month

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Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 199: People's Fascination With Adoption

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Birth Mother Matters Podcast S2, Ep 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast Season 2, Episode 198: 20 Reasons Why Women Choose Adoption There are a multitude of reasons that birth mothers choose adoption.  Here are twenty of the reasons...  Too young- teen momNot ready to be a parentIn financial distressDesire for baby to have the best life possibleStruggling with addictionPregnancy is a result of rape or incestNo support – single parent maybe, no family?Life is presently unstable: unemployed/homelessWanting different things out of life:  College, Demanding Job etc…Family is not in agreement with you parenting a babyBroken up with the birth fatherCPS/DCS- state involvement with other childrenDon't believe in abortion- religiousSignificant/severe health issuesCurrently in a  Domestic Violent situationDon't have the  time/resources/patience for another childDesire for your child raised in a two parent familyThe baby will have special needs and you are unable to care for your babyAdoption is free for BMs and they may be able to receive assistanceThe belief in adoption, maybe experienced adoption before These 20 reason for women choosing to make an adoption plan are only some of the reasons women choose adoption. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast S2, Episode 197: The Adoption Influence What influences society's view of adoption and how does that influence adoptive families? Adoption isn’t taboo, and we need to celebrate it, just like you would the news of a pregnancy.  Share in the joy!   Maybe plan a “Sip & See” after the adoption is finalized? Remember when somone is sharing their exciting news of choosing to adopt: Be mindful of thestories you tell…Hold off on a summerization of "Lifetime-type" movies.Its not the time to tell the stories of adoption disruptions of others.  (Additionally, you may not have the whole story.)Remember that your words matter.  Use adoption- friendly word chpices and be mindful of what you say and the way in which you say it.Keep in mind that additionally, your or others' reposnses may be influenced by various types of Influences, such asSocial MediaEducation LevelPersonal ExperienceGenerational InfluenceSocial Influence If you offer your congratulations and support, that will mean the world to the person(s) adopting.  If you have questions, maybe hold off for a bit until the news is shared with everyone intended.  Adoption support is needed, and the importance and value of adoption matters.

22 Okt 202121min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:196: Spreading the Love of Adoption Spreading the Love of Adoption, raising adoption awareness- what you can do to make an impact on elevating the understanding, acceptance and choice of adoption. Giving adoption a voice. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:195:  Following Up on Topics

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast  2:195:  Following Up on Topics Follow-up on previous topics previously discussed:  online adoptive profiles, Fund raising, abortion news, separation anxiety, holiday giving. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

9 Okt 202113min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Podcast 2:194 Separation & Anxiety For Adoptees Sparation Anxiety can be a common issue among adoptees.    Adoptees may experience separation & anxiety during their lifetime.  Adoptees may find comfort in knowing that they are not alone, goodbyes can be very difficult. Loved ones can gather an understanding adoptee separation anxiety and ways to support them. Listen. Learn. Love. Giving adoption a voice.

22 Sep 202124min

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