29. Cognitive dissonance and (lack of) emotional safety with the narcissist

29. Cognitive dissonance and (lack of) emotional safety with the narcissist

In this episode, I share my experience with the concept of "emotional safety" and cognitive dissonance in my marriage to a narcissist.

Many people who have been involved with a narcissist will tell you that the emotional safety they felt during their relationship was only an illusion. In truth, there is no sense of security because it takes little to nothing for the person on which your love and attention have depended so greatly to turn against you in anger or frustration. The experience can be traumatic but also teaches us valuable lessons about what we are willing risk pursuing relationships that I otherwise would not go near - even when those risks seem worth it at first glance.

To follow my journey on Instagram or to connect with me directly, please click here https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/

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Here's the article I wrote that started it all: https://blog.usejournal.com/i-was-married-to-a-narcissist-for-12-years-and-i-had-no-idea-3398b7b15c45

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68. MAJOR UPDATE and There's no "winning" against a Narcissist

68. MAJOR UPDATE and There's no "winning" against a Narcissist

It's been MONTHS since I've done an update. Here's what's happened with the narcissist since the last episode.

20 Feb 202545min

67. Long overdue update: The narcissist and I are going to court. AGAIN!

67. Long overdue update: The narcissist and I are going to court. AGAIN!

In this episode, I'm sharing some long overdue updates and tell you the story of why the narcissist and I are back in court. AGAIN! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadvent...

25 Jul 202436min

66. My message to the narcissist's new "supply" (or How could she not see these 3 red flags?)

66. My message to the narcissist's new "supply" (or How could she not see these 3 red flags?)

In this episode, I share what I want to tell the narcissist's new supply and three major flags that she should look out for. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswi...

31 Okt 202344min

65. I had to file a "motion for contempt" because the narcissist did THIS!

65. I had to file a "motion for contempt" because the narcissist did THIS!

In this episode, I share why I had to file a motion for contempt in my divorce case with the narcissist. Make sure to stay ALL the way through the end because I ended the episode and then had some new...

16 Okt 202334min

64. "Mom, you're irrelevant..."

64. "Mom, you're irrelevant..."

In this episode, I share my reaction to being told that I'm "irrelevant"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here's the article I ...

18 Sep 202329min

63. Three things I realized - and what I need to change!

63. Three things I realized - and what I need to change!

In this episode I share three things I realized about my narcissistic abuse healing journey. To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Here...

10 Jul 202329min

62. The biggest crossroads yet. Sigh...

62. The biggest crossroads yet. Sigh...

In this episode I share some recent developments and how I'm feeling about finding myself at a crossroads. The narcissistic abuse healing journey continues! To follow me on Instagram, visit https://w...

5 Jul 202348min

61. Grief and "I never had that..."

61. Grief and "I never had that..."

In this episode I share my recent experience with grief and the idea of "I never had that"... To follow me on Instagram, visit https://www.instagram.com/misadventureswiththenarcissist/ ========== Her...

18 Jun 202345min

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