108 - I Don’t Know Who I am: obligation vs autonomy with Benjamin Christmass

108 - I Don’t Know Who I am: obligation vs autonomy with Benjamin Christmass

Have you ever thought…”I don’t know who I am.” That is one of the questions many of us ask ourselves in late identified life one of the other thoughts that often come up is “if I don’t do this I will fail.”

Join me with my wonderful friend and guest today, Benjamin Christmass as we discuss these thoughts along with his glorious idea of “The Germination of Obligation.” How does obligation show up and where do we start the road to autonomy?

An empowered community voice is needed for change to begin, tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcast, Google, YouTube and more to begin a powerful conversation with your community.

Mind Your Autistic Brain Talk Show hosted by Carole Jean Whittington, Founder of Mind Your Autistic Brain. I am a late identified Autistic ADHDer, ND Burnout Restoration Development Coach, creator of The UnVeiling Method, Director of The NeuroDrive Team, Champion of Change in the Neurodistinct Workforce Movement, Mom to 2 ND teens, partner to an amazing man and official dog walker to our two dogs Easter and Gus.

Did I mention I am in YEAR THREE plus of THRIVING living Burnout, Meltdown and Shutdown FREE? I am finally off the Chronic Cycle Burnout Loop after 40 years!

Each week I have a conversation with another late identified autistic, who shares their voice, experiences and journey with you or I am sharing steps from my signature Burnout To Thriving Method to help you go from Struggling Burned Out Autistic to living your Best Thriving Life without Masking all day in relationships or work.

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207 - Bee Stings, Pool Drama & The Fertile Void: A Summer of Rest, Renewal & CASY Camp Magic

207 - Bee Stings, Pool Drama & The Fertile Void: A Summer of Rest, Renewal & CASY Camp Magic

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