
Purpose, Power & Shadow Work with Craig Filek
What happens when you reach the top of Success Mountain and still feel empty?In this raw and powerful in-person conversation, I sit down with purpose-mapping expert Craig Filekâyes, literally at my houseâto talk about what comes after success, and why so many high-achieving men crash into addiction, shame, and confusion when the dopamine runs out.We unpack:-Why men lose themselves after achieving everything they thought they wanted -The link between sexual energy, shame, and a lack of purpose-The concept of gold in the shadowâand how your shame holds your superpower-Craigâs simple and powerful âMap of Psychological Wholenessâ -How to rewire your brain through purpose, daily habits, and aligned actionThis episode is for anyoneâespecially high performersâstruggling with bad habits, porn, addiction, or that nagging question: Now what?đ Get Craig Filekâs free Purpose Map tool here â To reach Craig directly and get access to the Purpose MappingÂź method we discussed in todayâs episode DM âhabitsâ to @PurposeMapping on InstagramđČ Text Craig Filek directly at 847-238-8332đž DM âhabitsâ to @PurposeMapping on Instagram to unlock the free tool + tracker
26 Jun 38min

Healing the Father Wound, Ending Male Isolation & Reclaiming Gold â with Menâs Healer Rick Broniec
In this powerful episode of Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions, I sit down with internationally respected menâs healer, bestselling author, and workshop facilitator Rick Broniec.With over 35 years of experience leading menâs trainings on six continents through the Mankind Project, Rick brings deep wisdom on two of the most devastating afflictions facing men today: the epidemic of isolation and the father wound.We explore why so many men lack meaningful friendships, how early programming blocks emotional intimacy, and how shame around âfeminineâ qualities suffocates authentic masculinity. Rick unpacks how men are trained to suppress not just their darknessâbut also their gold.Youâll hear why embracing the full spectrum of your emotional and spiritual self is essential to creating a healthy sexual life.We also dive into Rickâs revolutionary upcoming Sacred Menâs Retreat in Brazil: a week-long ayahuasca-assisted journey of deep menâs work, spiritual healing, and connection, happening July 7â13, 2025.This retreat is legal, safe, guided by skilled indigenous shamans, and held in a beautiful oceanside resort just outside Rio de Janeiro. If youâve been called to plant medicine and feel ready to unlock the next level of your healing, this could be the path youâve been waiting for.đ„ Topics We Cover:What real male connection looks like (and how to build it)The Classics framework: 8 traits of healthy masculinityThe truth about shadow work (yes, even the golden parts we repress)Why so many men act out sexuallyâand how spiritual wounds play a roleHow intentional plant medicine work can open your heart and change your lifeđĄ Whether youâre struggling with sex or porn addiction, feeling alone, or seeking deeper meaning in your masculine journey, this episode is filled with insight, compassion, and powerful next steps.đ Important Links:đż Rickâs Sacred Menâs Retreat in Brazil (July 7â13, 2025):https://www.maravilharetreat.com/souldiscoveryjuly đ Rickâs Website & Books:Power Tools for MenWisdom Windfall đ± Connect with Rick:Facebook | Instagram | LinkedInđ§ Email: rbroniec@gmail.com | đ Phone: 414-688-9580
15 Jun 41min

Therapist Calls Out the Broken Mental Health System | Coaching vs Therapy, Porn, & Dopamine Loops
âMost therapists and coaches suck.â Thatâs how licensed psychotherapist and mental performance coach Vincent Infante opens this powerful episode of Sex Afflictions & Porn Addictions.In this no-holds-barred conversation with Craig Perra, founder of The Mindful Habit, youâll hear two men whoâve been through hell, done the work, and now help others navigate out of the darknessâespecially men drowning in shame, addiction, and dopamine-fueled distractions. đ„Topics we hit hard:+Why traditional therapy often makes people worseâand what to do instead +The truth about psych meds: masking vs. healing+Why porn, gambling, and social media are killing your capacity to change+How awareness alone isnât enoughâand why coaching+ accountability matters +The toxic lies men believe about love, success, and their worth+Vincentâs journey from suicidal ideation to fatherhood, freedom, and a billion-person missionWhether youâre a man battling sex and porn addiction, a high-performer struggling in silence, or just tired of feeling stuckâthis episode will hit you in the gut and give you a new lens on recovery.đ Connect with Vincent Infante: Website: www.vincentinfantelife.comThe 1% Podcast with Vin and ShaneSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6fGHWxlfwbQmyrWCN5ONX9Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-1-podcast-with-vin-and-shane/id1770320918Socials: @vininfanteReady for action!!!! Visit: https://mindfulhabithelp.com/YOUTUBE SPECIAL SAVE 50%: Men, because you are valued listeners, use the coupon code âPODCASTâ to save 50% off of our at-home 16 Week Core Training Program that includes a Weekly Webinar to get your questions answered with Expert Craig Perra: https://mindfulhabithelp.com/self-study CALL if you want to talk to our receptionist to learn more about our programs and costs and to schedule an appointment with Craig: (877)769-3790RECOMMENDED READINGS: https://www.themindfulhabitonline.com/recommended-reading Follow us on social media to join me live and to learn more about habits, mindfulness, unmet needs, parts work, and other tools to live your best life.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themindfulhabitsystemTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_mindful_habitLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigperra/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindful_habit_coaching/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/themindfulhabitTwitter: https://twitter.com/themindfulhabitTwitch: https://www.twitch.tv/mindfulhabitcoach Memento Mori Merch (created by "Scotty the Artist"): https://powerpurposegear.com/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0ILT9xCM1SxEbJpWUmlF00?si=eD1QL8dgQJmnE4C5yg1R0w iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-afflictions-porn-addictions/id556373664?mt=2
20 Mai 44min

Sex & Porn Addiction: Why All-or-Nothing Recovery Fails (And What Works Instead
If you've ever promised yourself "never again"âonly to fall back into the same compulsive patternsâthis episode is for you.In this raw and powerful lesson, Craig Perra, founder of The Mindful Habit System, exposes why the traditional all-or-nothing, abstinence-only model for treating sex and porn addiction keeps men stuck in shame and failure.Drawing on the powerful case study of a client named Don, Craig unpacks the psychological cost of using sex to regulate fear, anxiety, and trauma since childhoodâand why the key to lasting freedom lies in setting realistic, attainable goals rooted in science, not shame. Youâll learn:Why most men relapse in abstinence-only programsHow to separate porn from masturbation as a first harm-reduction stepWhy frequency, time, and severity must be tracked to build healthy sexualityHow to break the perfection/failure cycle and build a culture of successWhether you're deep in the struggle or supporting a loved one, this episode offers hope, direction, and a radically honest alternative to shame-based recovery.đ Learn more and get help today at mindfulhabithelp.com
1 Mai 22min

Understanding What Causes Porn Addiction and How to Overcome It: 9 Minutes
In this short 9 minute episode, Craig Perra, the founder of the Mindful Habit System, explores 'what causes porn addiction' and offers insights into its biological, psychological, cultural, and behavioral roots. Drawing from over a decade of experience, Craig discusses how men are trained to use porn as a coping mechanism for unmet needs, poor coping strategies, low self-esteem, shame, and secrets.He argues that porn addiction stems from repetitive patterns and conditioned responses formed early in life and emphasizes the importance of retraining the brain to create and sustain healthy sexuality.Craig sheds light on the underlying mental health issues often linked to porn addiction and stresses the need for holistic treatment beyond traditional approaches. Tune in to learn how to take back control and harness your sexual energy for a better life.visit www.mindfulhabithelp.com
23 Apr 9min

What Is Sex Addiction: 3 Signs and Symptoms, and Steps to Recovery (11 minutes)
What is Sex Addiction?: 3 Signs & Symptoms, and Mission Critical Steps to RecoveryIn this video, Craig Perra, founder of the Mindful Habit System, delves into the complexities of sex addiction and its signs and symptoms.He explains what sex addiction is, its controversial diagnosis, and how it differs from frequent sexual behavior. Craig also offers a simple definition and outlines the three primary indicators of sex addiction: an inability to stop, feelings of shame and guilt, and habitual lying and hiding.Drawing on 13 years of coaching high-performing men, he discusses deeper underlying issues like poor coping strategies, lack of purpose, and childhood trauma. Craig emphasizes the importance of creating a healthier relationship with technology, practicing mindfulness, and aggressively pursuing a great life as key steps to recovery.00:00 Introduction to Sex Addiction00:50 Defining Sex Addiction 03:04 The Controversy Around Sex Addiction 04:42 Three Signs of Sex Addiction06:49 Understanding the Root Causes09:15 Steps to Break Free10:40 Conclusion Visit www.mindfulhabithelp.com if you need more help and want to learn more. Text PODCAST to 877-356-5573 if you have any questions about our programs.
16 Apr 10min

How to Stop Porn Addiction â 5 Essential Steps That Actually Work (15 minute episode)
How do you stop porn addictionâfor good?Most men never stop their porn addiction, and itâs not because theyâre weak. Itâs because theyâre using outdated tools to fight a deeply wired, incredibly difficult problem. In this video, Craig Perraâworld-renowned coach and founder of The Mindful Habit Systemâshares the 5 essential steps that have helped thousands of men overcome porn addiction and transform their lives.đ« This is NOT about willpower, shame, or talking about your feelings once a week.đ„ This is about taking real action using a system-based, science-backed approach that actually works.đ What Youâll Learn in This Lesson:Why you must find and live your purposeHow to use systemsânot willpowerâto break the habitThe role of distress tolerance and mindfulness in self-controlWhy parts work is essential to long-term recoveryThe real cure: aggressively pursuing a great lifeYouâll also learn: â Why the American Psychiatric Association rejected sex addiction as a diagnosisâ Why traditional therapy and 12-step meetings often fall shortâ How to lead the parts of you that lie, cheat, numb out, and sabotage If youâre ready to stop playing defense and start building a life youâre proud of, this video is for you. đ Subscribe for more truth bombs on how to stop porn addiction, heal your relationships, and lead your life.đ Visit https://www.mindfulhabithelp.com to learn how The Mindful Habit System is changing lives around the world. đ§ Your sexual energy is powerful. With great power comes great responsibility.Letâs make it count. #HowToStopPornAddiction #PornAddictionRecovery #StopPorn #MindfulHabit #CraigPerra #OvercomeAddiction #RebootPorn #SelfLeadership #PartsWork #MensMentalHealth
7 Apr 9min

The Real Reason You Canât Beat Sex & Porn Addiction (And What to Do Instead): Systems
You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.That quote from Atomic Habits by James Clear changed my lifeâand in this episode, Iâm going to show you why it needs to change yours. If youâre struggling with sex and porn addiction, or supporting someone who is, youâre likely overwhelmed, stuck, and maybe even hopeless.Youâve tried therapy. Support groups. Willpower. White-knuckling it.But hereâs the truth⊠âĄïž Sex and porn addiction isnât a âbad habit.â Itâs a deeply entrenched coping strategyâwired in childhood, reinforced by shame, supercharged by biology, and sustained by secrecy.âĄïž Most recovery plans obsess over the problemâbut few focus on the systems that build lasting transformation.âĄïž Thatâs why so many men fail. In this episode, Iâll break down:Why this quote is mandatory training if you want to build healthy sexuality and a great lifeWhy sex and porn addiction is so hard to breakHow your biology, early exposure, shame, and emotional repression create a perfect stormAnd the 9 essential systems of The Mindful Habit Systemâdeveloped over 13 years, used by thousands of men, and built to help you take back control of your lifeThese systems are the foundation for sustained success:Purpose & DirectionRisk ManagementSelf-Leadership (including self-control & self-esteem)AccountabilityCommunity & ConnectionMindfulness & FaithGratitudeHealthy SexualityIf you donât have your own systemâborrow mine. Iâm Craig Perra, founder of The Mindful Habit. I help high-performing professionalsâdoctors, lawyers, executives, and men around the worldâbreak free from destructive sexual behaviors and create powerful lives rooted in integrity, connection, and purpose.â¶ïž Watch. Take notes. Reflect. This is the stuff no one taught usâbut it's what we all need.đ Ready to start your journey? Go to https://mindfulhabithelp.com and watch the free training.
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