124: When Seeking Validation Leads to Pornography and/or Physical Infidelity
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction21 Des 2023

124: When Seeking Validation Leads to Pornography and/or Physical Infidelity

What do you do when you struggle with feelings of needing validation from a source outside of yourself?

Whether it’s sexual attention from a woman, making a lot of money, doing and accomplishing things, or looking a certain way, it’s a trap that leads to more heartache.

In this episode, I share how both a husband and wife can work through these underlying issues that lead to validation seeking and coping in destructive ways.

The more you can recognize and resolve the root cause, the more peace, fulfillment, and worth you can feel in a healthy, sustainable way.

For therapy with Sam:

Send an email here to get more information – sam@healingcouples.org

Follow Me on Instagram for daily tips and tools you can implement to overcome pornography addiction

Join the free, private men’s Facebook community here for Q&As, live trainings, tools, and support:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/toolstoquit

Want access to a free course I created for my podcast listeners?

Simply go to www.coupleshealing.org and in the course you'll learn some top strategies to find healing from addiction and trauma, rebuild trust, experience freedom, and begin to reconnect with each other in the relationship.

Episoder(242)

220: What If It “Just Comes Back?” — How to Gain Long-Term Control Over Pornography Use

220: What If It “Just Comes Back?” — How to Gain Long-Term Control Over Pornography Use

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

30 Okt 202518min

219: Perfectionism and Shame

219: Perfectionism and Shame

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

23 Okt 202521min

218: Lashing Out, Shutting Down: How to Help When She’s Triggered

218: Lashing Out, Shutting Down: How to Help When She’s Triggered

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

16 Okt 202518min

217: Can You Really “Cure” Porn Addiction? (this will give you hope)

217: Can You Really “Cure” Porn Addiction? (this will give you hope)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

9 Okt 202518min

216: When Sexual Energy Builds: How to Avoid the Relapse Spiral Without Suppression or Shame

216: When Sexual Energy Builds: How to Avoid the Relapse Spiral Without Suppression or Shame

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

2 Okt 202520min

215: 3 Ways to Improve Your Sexual Intimacy After Pornography's Impact

215: 3 Ways to Improve Your Sexual Intimacy After Pornography's Impact

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stop...

25 Sep 202524min

214: How to Stop Urges Before They Hijack Your Brain

214: How to Stop Urges Before They Hijack Your Brain

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

18 Sep 202520min

213: When Lying Erodes the Trust – Tools to Use for Him and Her

213: When Lying Erodes the Trust – Tools to Use for Him and Her

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn....

11 Sep 202522min

Populært innen Samfunn

rss-spartsklubben
giver-og-gjengen-vg
aftenpodden
konspirasjonspodden
popradet
aftenpodden-usa
rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
rss-henlagt-andy-larsgaard
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
wolfgang-wee-uncut
min-barneoppdragelse
grenselos
rss-dannet-uten-piano
rss-espen-lee-usensurert
frokostshowet-pa-p5
fladseth
rss-dette-ma-aldri-skje-igjen
alt-fortalt
synnve-og-vanessa
opptur-med-annette-og-ingeborg