It’s OK To Lie On Dating Apps Sometimes

Today’s episode is full of realizations. First, Jared and Jordana help a listener who downloaded the apps before moving and unexpectedly fell in love. While helping her through a potential long-distance dilemma, J&J agree on a new dating principle they think all single people on the verge of a move should follow. Next up, an Awkward Encounter where a listener is determined to get her jeans back after hooking up with two roommates on the same night. Then, an upset listener writes in after noticing her boyfriend changes into a different person when he’s around his friends, even though he warned her this would happen. Jared puts himself in her boyfriend's shoes to try to understand his reasoning. The episode ends with a round of "Made You Blush" stories, in partnership with NYX, about needing emergency services mid-hookup and getting pranked during an awful date. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

28 Aug 202449min

This Sunday Special, Kaitlyn Bristowe (@kaitlynbristowe), host of the "Off The Vine" podcast, reunites with her friend Jared and finally meets Jordana for a U Up? crossover we've all been waiting for. Having been the Bachelorette at a pivotal point in the digital era and a year past a relationship so public it warranted a breakup announcement post, Kaitlyn reveals how boundaries with social media have evolved in her career and personal life as a public figure. Then, J&J grill her with a game about what she’s looking for in her next partner. The episode ends with an email from a listener wondering how to navigate the mutual friend group after a breakup. Kaitlyn can relate, sharing a time when someone else from Bachelor Nation confronted her about a date, and the three discuss how important it is to have open communication within a close group. For more from Kaitlyn Bristowe, check out the "Off The Vine" podcast (@offthevinepodcast) where Jared and Jordana will join her soon.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Aug 202458min

J&J are closing out the summer with what's weighing on our minds. They discuss the significance of hometown heroes and ask the important questions like, what’s a bigger deal: getting a street named after you or having your name on your town’s Wikipedia page? Next up, they do a lightning round full of questions submitted by listeners, from how to compromise with your football-obsessed partner this fall to whether you should hook up with your handyman and, on a more serious note, how long can one ethically date multiple people before they let their partners know? The episode ends with a round of "Made You Blush" stories, in partnership with NYX, where Jared and Jordana both share a time they found themselves a little flushed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Aug 202459min

On today’s Sunday Special, we’re revisiting a tried and true segment: the deal reveal. But before diving right in, J&J mourn the end of summer and discuss their remaining plans. Afterwards, the two hold a "Couples Court" to discuss a long debated argument between an engaged couple from early on in their relationship. Next, J&J dissect a “Deal Reveal,” where they decode texts between a confused listener and their date. If their date was so great, why won’t the other person adjust their schedule to have another? J&J use the texts to figure out if this is a friend-zoning situation or if the other person is really just too busy to compromise Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Aug 202432min

Jared and Jordana are putting themselves in the shoes of listeners who are facing tough situations today. But before diving right in, they caught up with their producer Belle about her bachelorette party and wedding prep. Then, the first email is about the pros and cons of auditioning for a dating show. Next up, an Awkward Encounter from a listener who searched through her dates wallet and found a lot more than she bargained for. Then, we hear from a listener who needs help deciding if they should break their personal rule they set for themselves and move in with their partner before getting engaged. The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about first date etiquette, avoiding a post-BJ kiss, and a shocking message a listener found on her BF’s phone. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Aug 20241h 13min

This Sunday Special is full of disconnects today, but before diving in, J&J take us to Plug City to talk you through where they were right before the recording. They spent the first part of their day at Albert’s Bar after the owner (a subscriber!) reached out claiming his spot was great for a first date. They took in the ambiance during a special project for the pod and ended with lunch to get the full experience so they could assess for themselves. Afterward, they read an “Icky or Picky?” about a trip to Jared’s second home, the Comedy Cellar, but our listener wasn’t laughing. She was out with her boyfriend for a fun date night, and one joke made him laugh so hard, a mix of the ick and embarrassment came over her. Next, an Aussie listener writes in about her relationship going downhill ever since she let her BF know how her parents felt about their relationship, and now distance is getting added to the mix as he moves closer to work. Are the obstacles all in their heads or can nothing be done? J&J give their two cents to help her out of the hole she’s in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Aug 202435min

J&J are diving right in because Dr. Naomi Bernstein, Jordana’s sister and co-host of Oversharing, is in the studio to ease us into this episode. Plus, her husband Jeff tagged along, so we got both sides of their story as they take us back to dating in 2006. Afterwards, Jared sneaks in a mini session about his “hoodfishing” issue on the apps. The first email is from a listener struggling with talking to her boyfriend about grief. She recently lost her dad, but her boyfriend’s obvious discomfort has her holding back, so J&J get some help from Dr. Naomi on how she should proceed. The Awkward Encounter is one single mom’s “what happened in vegas” story. Then, we hear from a listener needing J&J to help her decide whether to give her BF a heads up that her ex will be at a wedding they’re attending soon. Her BF doesn’t want to know about exes, but they’re both in the wedding party, so should an exception be made to avoid an awkward moment? The episode ends with a “Red Flag or Deal Breaker?” about repeating a couples trip to Italy, getting grossed out by period sex, and bizarre eating habits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Aug 20241h 14min

We’re kicking off the first Sunday Special of August with not-so-unique dating experiences. J&J play a round of “Icky or Picky?” about a seemingly flirty line that rubbed one listener the wrong way. Then, an email comes from a listener who keeps getting what he calls the “hero treatment breakup,” a breakup involving loads of compliments leaving you alone and confused. Jared and Jordana have played both sides of this breakup style and lend perspective over what they think is happening. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Aug 202434min