Coming Out to Mum: A Dominatrix's Double Life

Coming Out to Mum: A Dominatrix's Double Life

For years, I lived a double life. My conservative, Christian mother knew nothing of my profession as a Dominatrix until a revelation seven years in the making unfolded, with surprising results. In this candid, personal episode, I share about the fear, the tension, and ultimately the liberation that came with breaking my silence. I explore the delicate dance of withholding the truth, the strain it put on my relationship with my mother, and the unexpected acceptance that emerged. Disclaimer: Some long pauses towards the end due to tears :)

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HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:15) - Coming Out to Mum About Being a Dominatrix (01:35) - Bible Study, Christianity, Conservatism (03:55) - Hiding My Job and What it Did to Our Relationship (04:40) - Why Did I Tell Her After 7 Years? (05:30) - Sex Worker Friendly Therapy (07:15) - Planning the Coming Out (08:30) - Executing the Plan, Not As Expected (10:04) - Mum’s Questions About the Job (12:15) - My Answers (16:16) - My Mother’s Insight, Humour and Compassion (20:15) - How The Coming Out Settled

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