160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction5 Sep 2024

160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security

One of the biggest fears that women have in this process is that her husband will return to pornography since she won't know about it.

She’ll bring down her wall, start to trust him again, and then the other shoe will drop and she'll be devastated again.

How can she know if he is still stuck in his pattern?

If there’s been dishonesty in the past, how can she know if he is telling the truth or not now?

It's critical for a husband to demonstrate change in a way that helps her to believe him again.

It's very discouraging for him when he really is trying and is making progress, but no matter what he does he feels down when she doesn’t believe him.

In this episode I'll share how you can approach this together to help build security and confidence that things really are different as a result of the new actions he's taking.

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242: 10 Tips to Quit Pornography and Rebuild Your Relationship

242: 10 Tips to Quit Pornography and Rebuild Your Relationship

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

2 Apr 26min

241: Is Pornography Addiction a Choice or Coping Mechanism? How You Can Tell (And Fix the Problem)

241: Is Pornography Addiction a Choice or Coping Mechanism? How You Can Tell (And Fix the Problem)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

26 Mar 21min

240: Don’t Rebuild Sexual Intimacy Until You Answer These 3 Questions

240: Don’t Rebuild Sexual Intimacy Until You Answer These 3 Questions

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

19 Mar 17min

239: Stop Trying To Resist Porn Urges — Do This Instead

239: Stop Trying To Resist Porn Urges — Do This Instead

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

12 Mar 20min

238: The Steps That Actually Fix Her Triggers in Public (It's Not What You're Doing)

238: The Steps That Actually Fix Her Triggers in Public (It's Not What You're Doing)

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

5 Mar 18min

237: Your World Blows Up After Discovery – Here's My Step by Step Outline For How to Heal.

237: Your World Blows Up After Discovery – Here's My Step by Step Outline For How to Heal.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

26 Feb 25min

236: When She Goes Numb: Betrayal Trauma – and How You Can Heal It

236: When She Goes Numb: Betrayal Trauma – and How You Can Heal It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

19 Feb 15min

235: A Christian Man's Guide to Quit Porn in 2026

235: A Christian Man's Guide to Quit Porn in 2026

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

12 Feb 25min

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