160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security
Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction5 Sep 2024

160: What If He Secretly Returns to Pornography? How She Can Know, And 5 Ways He Can Rebuild Security

One of the biggest fears that women have in this process is that her husband will return to pornography since she won't know about it.

She’ll bring down her wall, start to trust him again, and then the other shoe will drop and she'll be devastated again.

How can she know if he is still stuck in his pattern?

If there’s been dishonesty in the past, how can she know if he is telling the truth or not now?

It's critical for a husband to demonstrate change in a way that helps her to believe him again.

It's very discouraging for him when he really is trying and is making progress, but no matter what he does he feels down when she doesn’t believe him.

In this episode I'll share how you can approach this together to help build security and confidence that things really are different as a result of the new actions he's taking.

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If after the 12 weeks you haven’t fully been able to quit, I’ll work with you 1-1 for free until you do.

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

251: Why He Goes Quiet When She Brings Up the Past — And What Actually Helps

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

250: When Willpower and White Knuckling Urges Fail, Do This

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

249: 7 Things To Have In Your Plan to Quit Pornography Before 2026 is Over

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

248: Pornography Addiction Destroys Her Self Image. Here's How to Rebuild It

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stoppor...

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