Live IFS15 Okt 2023

308: Genie A. revisits

🔸 I'm in charge. Don't forget!

Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTQbiNvZqaY

📌Genie followed up:

Had another vivid “house” dream last night. This time it was a real house where I used to live - all the others have always been made up houses. And this house where I used to live had been totally renovated by these other people that were living in it now. Knocked down walls, kitchen moved to the other side of the house, and the flat downstairs was actually livable! It was beautiful! I was only visiting for a tour - with a whole bunch of other people - so I couldn’t stay, but it was very tricky finding my way out onto the street again. It was a nice dream.🙂 Not that subtle. 😆

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Toto - "Africa". That's our quintessential starting a road trip song! LOL. No idea of most of the lyrics, but we can all bellow out "We bless the rains down in Aa-aa-frica" at the top of our lungs with the windows wide open and the music turned way up. The little one in her carseat thinks it's hilarious!

Also - can't remember if I ever told you this - but I did notice a big change in how I responded and reacted to Mum after that session. It was quite a relief actually. And much more pleasant - for both of us. So I guess, despite not remembering most of it, it did have an effect.

🔹 Parts:

P: Fragile brittle woman. Sudden changes and loud noises are upsetting
P: Her caretaker, Must work quietly, Unconditional motherly, Thinks I’m:
E: Teenager, Inexperienced. Thinks the world is a rosy place, not serious, not aware of danger. Needs me to have wisdom/insight. Waiting for proof. Wants to see consistency. Wants to be a passenger on road trip. Wants no responsibility

🎓 What I'd like to do differently:

Interested targeting, huh? High five to both of us, I say.

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